Can't tell if i am being cheated on.
Boy Friend trouble... Need help figuring it all out... Is he cheating?
OK I have posted before asking questions and I have to add more details. I am currently 28 years with a 9 year old little girl and my boy friend is 48. He has kids himself and he is still married but not living together. They have not filed any paper work to move along to divorce. He has told me that the love in his marriage had been dead for years and that is why he cheated on his wife of 23 years because he fell in love with another woman. She also said she would kill herelf if he left her. I broke it off with him 2 weeks ago because the way he treated me and that he always wanted to hang out with his friends. I have been intigrating him in with my daughter so that we can all be a family. But recently a girl came up to my door and said that she had been seeing my b/f for some time and that she had seen the text messages that we send to each other and handed me my business card that she said she found in his pants. She said she was done with him and all
his drama and she left before I could ask her any questions. I confronted him about it and he let me check his email, myspace, Facebook, phone records and his phone. He said he cares about me and wants to be with me and that he does not know who this girl is. He sent me pics of all his ex's he dated in the last year to see if it was one of them that came to see me and it wasn't any of them. Last month someone called his work trying to get me and him in trouble so this is twice now that someone is wanting him and I not to be together and it makes me want to be with him 10X more. My best friend has heard all the good and bad with him and she has worked with him and his friends before but never met him personally and she calls me a retard/stupid for believing this guy. She said you had a girl come to your door not freaking out but just informing you that she was seeing him too. I don't know what to think any more Im confused. I love him and I have been
cheated on before by my 1st husband. I am a successful attorney and so is he so I am not here for the money.