I have a sony ericsson p910i .
I need a software to show me icon when I receive sms on black screen ( when show time in black screen for screen saver ) like model w550i or k750i

I would suggest you contact Sony to get the answers you need.
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Go to sony.com. I own a w600I and founf all my softwear for my phone there. It was free to download