My name is kelven, I live in Ghana but am a Nigerian, I was having a lover who says she love me and I do really love her from my heart, I traveled to Nigeria for studies, on my return back she has gotten a new lover and she told me she can't continue with me that she has cheated on me, and I really love this my lover, I don't want to leave her, and she don't want to come back to me, so what do I do to get her or should I forget about her? But its not easy you know,

I'm afraid you'll have to leave her. You cannot force her to return to you. Life is harsh sometimes. If she rejected you, what's the point of getting at her. Turn the page, or you'll be in misery for ever. Sorry for that. :(

Please do not put your phone number on this site for your security. We can answer all your questions on this forum.

If she found someone else, then she moved on with her life and she is now off limits. So it's time for you to move on as well. I know it's hard to accept, but you need to.

Avoid talking to her and avoiding getting updates about her life. It will help you ease the pain and move forward with your life.

You have two choices,

#1- Beg like a baby, and look foolish.

#2- Leave her alone, and get on with your life.

Most men move on, and get another lover. There are millions out there.

Please don't use the "but I love her" excuse. That's for people who choose to do choice #1.