Ok lately I have been sleepy and I haven't had my period in over a month now today 6/16/09 will make my 45th day and I am wondering what could be going on and I was sexual active I took 1 home prenacy test and I went to the obgyn and the health depart meant and they where all negative what could it be

Have you taken a blood test? They can determine pregnancy within 7-12 days of possible conception.

The best thing you can do now is wait until the date of your expected period and take another urine test if you are not willing to take a blood test.

Sarah

No I haven't took a blood test yet they told me to go back on 6/29/09 and repeat the steps and take a blood test... I had unprotected sex on April 24/09 my period came on 2 days early on may 1 and came off may 5 and never came back on

If I am pregnant... should I have an abortion and I am 14 years old

You should discuss it with your parents, unpleasant as that is sure to be. Do you have any views about abortion in general?

Hey hon.

Definitely talk to your parents hon. They should know. And they can help.

Also, the advise of a doctor is crutial. At 14, your pelvis may still be underdeveloped, and pose a danger to you AND the baby. In which case an abortion would be a good idea.

Other than that, I see no reason why not to have the baby. If you do not wish to keep him/her, adoption is free.

I don't personally believe abortion should be a option but it is something your parents need to talk with you about

Your parents probably don't even know you are having sex do they?

Yeah they know

Ok lately I have been sleepy and I haven't had my period in over a month now today 6/16/09 will make my 45th day and I am wondering what could be going on and I was sexual active I took 1 home prenacy test and I went to the obgyn and the health depart meant and they where all negative what could it be

What did your doctor say when you went?

Wait until about 60 days and go bac and get a blood test... n he said some of the urine test be negatives sometimes

That is possible; it takes a certain level of Hcg (the hormone that indicates pregnancy) to be present before getting a "positive" reading.

There are many other circumstances that can cause a fluctuation in your menstrual cycle:

-stress (so worrying about a missed period can in fact delay it even more), but also stress from work, school, family, or any major change in your life.

-significant weight gain or loss

-new medications

I haven't been stress out a lot... n I have cramp sort of like period cramp but no period

Your period may be on the way.
But for now it's a waiting game. Wait a couple weeks and retest.

I been having them for like 6 or 5 week now

Try a heating pad or moderate exercise to help relieve the discomfort. You may want to avoid taking any OTC meds until you are sure that you're not pregnant because certain meds are not OK during pregnancy.

OK but I haven't missed a period

Did I miss something? Your first post said you haven't had a period in 45 days. Then you said you went to a dr and had a pregnancy test. Your question is titled "wondering if I'm pregnant". So what is it that you're asking?

Could I be and I meant that I missed my period and it still haven't came on so what you think could it be.