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I lost him because he wanted a job. This was last week, and he did it because he would not go to work, because he wanted to spend every minute of day with me. We were supposed to be getting back together today, but his mate asked if I seen I'm lately. I said no, which I haven't, because he didn't want me to tell hi. Well today his mate said he has been sleeping with someone, which I questioned him about, but I realized that person was me, Now its over. Is there any chance anyone knows how I can get the love of my life back

How old are you?

21 y

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Originally Posted by vickylewis

he wanted a job so he left me to get we was ment to be getting bk 2geva 2day but his mate said he was sleepin with someone but he was not its was me who he was sleepin with now he wont get bk with me need help how to make this better and how to get him bk

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I still have no idea what you're saying. He left you for a job, you were supposed to be getting back together today, his friend told you your boyfriend was sleeping with someone but that someone was you. And now he won't get back together with you.

You might need to elaborate because this still makes absolutely no sense.

Yeah that's it why don't it make sense

As for him, forget him and get your own act together. Clearly you are hurt as it is effecting your ability to make sense of anything. If you two are meant to be, it will be, no matter what you do/don't do.

You are not allowed to write in chat speak on this board.

Why won't he get back with you if you were the one he was sleeping with?

I really don't understand what you are saying.

He wanted to get a job, so he left you to get one? Then you were supposed to get back together today? Then his mate told you that he was sleeping with someone, but it was actually you that he was sleeping with? Now he won't get back with you?

Is this what you are saying?

By left for a job do you mean out of town? And is he ignoring you or he told you he didn't want to get back together? How long have you been dating him?

You're going to need to give more information if you want anyone to help you here.

Yeah it is what I'm saying because I questiond him about sleeping with someone but I realised it was me I need him back

No its in town and yeah he is ignorin me and said he don't want to get bk with me but I know he loves me because he still tells me

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Originally Posted by vickylewis

yeah it is what im sayin because i questiond him about sleepin with someone but i realised it was me i need him back

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Okay then you needed to give that information out... you never said that before.

The only thing you can do is apologize and hope that he forgives you. You can't win him back by any means, so start with an apology and let him do his own thing. If he doesn't want to get back together, then that's his choice and you can't do much about that.

Ill just leave him to it and move on

Well, if you love him, then why would you not even apologize to him and just move on? If that is what you are going to do then you never really loved him in the first place.

I said sorry nothing else I can do

No need to be sorry, but moving on is a good idea as its up to him what he wants to do. Do for yourself.

Paragraphs are your friend...

I am still confused even if this topic is resolved?

He left you to take a job? Yes? No?
The job was in another state? Yes? No?
He has been sleeping with a new girl? Yes? No?
You found out it was you?? WHAT WAS YOU?? The new girl he was sleeping with was you? Or you found out that YOU were the reason he left? Or what?? Someone translate it for me.

Yeah he left for a job
No the job was not in another state
No he didn't sleep with a new girl
The person he was sleeping with was me no one else

You don't need him. You do not equal "valuable" in his eyes.

I know it's hard, but really, don't even give him a second thought. Go out with friends and work out or scrap-book.

There are tons of men out there that want to treat you well and with love.