2 weeks ago I broke up with my 1 year boyfriend...
We had a long distance relationship.. We met online through a friend, 1 month later he came all the way to my country to meet me.. . So we began our relationship... It was so good we didn't break it off when he went away... The next month I went and visited him too.. I spent 2 weeks in his house and met all of his friends and family members.. It was all amazing, we had the time of our lives..
When I returned to my country we kept in contact and didn't end things.. and he promised he was going to come back for me... And 8 months later he did... He came for just 2 weeks.. worked very hard during the summer to get the money to come and he even sold things on eBay to pay his hotel stay..
It really made me happy that he would do all those things for me.. And I was so in love... But he acted so strange during the time he was here... So cold.. sometimes he would be sweet and sometimes he wouldn't... His behavior really confused me.
Sometimes I thought he loved me for all the things he did and sometimes I thought he didn't.. When I confronted him he said that's just the way he is.. But I know its NOT cause it wasn't like that all the other times..
We also had this talk about ending things cause its too hard to be away from each other and there's too much suffering involved.. So he suggested to be just friends.. even though he didn't want to... But we kept going and agreed that I was going to go see him in December..
And even though I was still mad and confused because of the way he acted I really wanted to go see him.. When I confirmed him I was going he said he didn't know if it was a good idea, cause he couldn't take more time off work.. etc etc.. So he kind of told me not to go in a polite way.. So I broke up with him immediately.. And he didn't say a thing.. He only asked me if we could still be friends and keep talking..
We did talk 2 times and after that NOTHING
Now 2 weeks after the break up he posted a picture of the two of us as his Myspace's default. He also put it as his msn messenger display.. So this really confused me.. I was sooo moving on.. And this really got me thinking.. WHY WOULD SOMEONE POST A PICTURE OF THEIR EX ON A PUBLIC PLACE WHERE EVERYONE CAN SEE IT! I talked to him and he sent me songs saying " i miss youuuu" and asked me for a picture of us a friend of mine took... And at the same time he acted so indiferent during the conversation..
TELL ME WHYYY! What does this behavior meannnn?
Does he miss me? IS he nostalgic and thinking about our time together.. Does he want me back but is too proud to say it?
HELP ME PLEASE:(