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  • Jun 17, 2009, 07:49 AM
    chrissy190384
    12 days late period
    Hello hopefully someone can help me. Me and my partner have been trying for a baby,my periods are bang on every 35 days never been late.I am now 12 days late.my last period was 3rd may and I was due on on the 6th June.I done a pregnancy test 13th was negative so as I had done it in the day thought might be wrong.so I done another one 14th in morning again negative. I booked doctor appoionment he told me to do another test and also tested me for infections both came back today and no infections but still a negative test result.since last week I have been having lower back pain and abdominal like I do when I'm about to come on but I haven't and I don't really feel like I'm going to either.over the weekend I was feeling bit sick on off throghout the day but mostly at night,today is first day I don't feel as sick,I have not been sick. Been quite tired but nothing major and going to toilet a lot but I'm putting that down to drinking a lot of water.my doc is not being very helpful and I can't understand why there is no period if I'm not pregnant.please please could someone help?? :)
  • Jun 17, 2009, 07:57 AM
    saint77

    These are symptoms of early pregnancy. But it might be too early to do test. Wait few more days then do test again. I think it takes about 10 days before you get pregnancy hormone in urine.
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:07 AM
    chrissy190384
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    theese r symptoms of early pregnancy. but it might be too early to do test. wait few more days then do test again. i think it takes about 10 days b4 u get pregnancy hormone in urine.

    thank you I will try testing again fri. find it all so confusing.which test would be the best one to try? As the ones I used at the weekend were tesco ones. Also do you know if there could be any other reason for period to be this late.I have not been strssed.when you say it takes about 10 days for hormone what do you mean? Sorry to ask you laods of questions really just want my mind at ease.many thanks
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:09 AM
    chrissy190384
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    theese r symptoms of early pregnancy. but it might be too early to do test. wait few more days then do test again. i think it takes about 10 days b4 u get pregnancy hormone in urine.

    Sorry one ore thing my breasts don't really feel any different and since mon I have been having a clear discharge not loads just when I wipe after going to the toilet,do you think that maybe that could still mean pregnancy?
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:12 AM
    saint77

    I don't know the proper name for hormone but it appears in your wee and blood when you are pregnant. If you were due on 6th I would do the test somewhere on 20th. I think it called predictor (pregnancy test). I am not sure about any other reasons. Have you had smear recently? U can ask anything about pregnancy been there ;)
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:14 AM
    saint77
    It is not nessesarry to have sensitive breasts. If discharge is clear and doesn't smell it should be OK
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:18 AM
    saint77

    I can't tell 100% that you are pregnant. But it does sound that way. I had unprotected sex on 25 of December and on 17 of January I found out that I am expecting,
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:20 AM
    saint77
    Did that help u a bit?
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:23 AM
    chrissy190384
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    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    i can't tell 100% that u r pregnant. but it does sound that way. i had unprotected sex on 25 of december and on 17 of january i found out that i am expecting,

    Ah congratulations.I had my smear almost 3 weeks ago now,I spoke with a nurse earlier about my results not that she was much help.she has booked me in with a doctor again for this mon morning she was asking me if when I went mon just gone did he do an internal examination which he didn't.dont suppose you know why she would want to know that as this is why I am booked back in for check up and the internal. When I went on mon he did press on my back and abdominal but it didn't hurt apart from just above my bikini line felt quite uncomfortable.
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:29 AM
    chrissy190384
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    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    did that help u a bit?

    when I say results I didn't mean smear meant pregnancy results just in case thought dif/
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:29 AM
    saint77

    Did she tell you your smear results? That's a bit unusual to have an internal because missed periods. Try to do a test on sat or Sunday. But when he examined you did he say anything?
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:33 AM
    chrissy190384
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    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    did she tell u ur smear results? thats a bit unusual to have an internal cos missed periods. try to do a test on sat or sunday. but when he examined u did he say anything?

    not really no he took my blood pressure,temp and told me to do a urine sample for infection which came back clear today and also gave me bottle so I could do a first thing in morning and took it in.he said my blood pressure and temp were fine but that's it.feel like they keeping me in dark that why come on here lol.y do u ask about smear?
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:38 AM
    saint77

    I think they don't know what to tell u. it is just my mate was late and they done smear don't know why. Just wait few more days and do pregnancy test again. First wee in tha morning.
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:40 AM
    chrissy190384
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    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    i think they dont know what to tell u. it is just my mate was late and they done smear dont know why. just wait few more days and do pregnancy test again. first wee in tha morning.

    OK will do thank you for our help not worrying as much now.thought I had something seriously wrong with me caz what docs were saying.thankyou
  • Jun 17, 2009, 08:44 AM
    saint77

    To me it sounds that you are pregnant because of the way you describe it. Let me know the results, if that's OK with u. good luck.
  • Jun 20, 2009, 09:14 AM
    saint77

    Have u done another test?
  • Jun 21, 2009, 11:35 PM
    chrissy190384
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    have u done another test?

    hello yes I did another test yesterday morning and still saying not pregnant and trid again this morning still nothing.I have the doctors this morning at 20 past 9 so real nervous about that.if they still are not giving me any answer do I have a right to have a scan as that would put my mind at rest completely then I could finally just know if anything is there or not.also I don't know if its just me or not but my nipples seem bigger and little bit darker than normal??
  • Jun 22, 2009, 01:21 PM
    saint77

    Hey. What did doctor say? Nipples change during pregnancy. Bigger and darker I can't understand you got all pregnancy symptoms. If you didn't get any results from your gp I think you should insist on having a scan.
  • Jun 22, 2009, 01:26 PM
    saint77
    But your gp got to refer you for a scan. Or you could make an appointment with midwife in your surgery explain all symptoms she should send you for a scan.
  • Jun 23, 2009, 01:56 AM
    chrissy190384
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    Originally Posted by saint77 View Post
    but ur gp got to refer u for a scan. or u could make an appointment with midwife in ur surgery explain all symptoms she should send u for a scan.

    hiya doc has done another test and get results back today.I asked about scan and my doc said they didn't do them anymore unless pregnant so after I left I rang scan unit and they told me that was rubbish so had to ring doc again and she rang back still telling me it wasn't true so gave her no to ring to clarify and when she rang back she said sorry and she didn't no things had changed again so now she has referred me for a scan prime example of what the doctors are like at my surgery. Done another test this morning in past I have been doing it in container and dipping stick in that way but this morning I went toilet on stick and after 20 sec didn't show anything and I just thought it only going to say negative again and went to go make my bloke lunch and forgot to look at results was only few hours ago I remembered and went to put it in bin and there was a faint positive line. That is not accurate though is it as I left it too long to read or is that what the result was going to do another one in morning same way as I done it this morning and this time stick around waiting for results whick take 2-5 min. I got doc again mon as they want to keep close eye on me and I got to have blood tests then too. Doc also said to test every other day.

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