My mistake in my life is that falling in love with my uncle's wife. I feel in love with her,after they host me in their house as a post graduate student for some time. Of course she should me some hints and poses me that drive me to talk to her that I love her. But her answer was not positive and I feel regret and embarrassed whenever I see my uncle not her. She told me that she dislikes her husband and no interest at all to have sex with him. So,what should I do. May I leave the room and live apart? Please help me with this.

Hi,it is for the second time I am sending this issue.After all,I fell in love with my uncle's wife.I know it is mistake.The cause is all about her close relstionship with me to the extent that she even tease me and gave me sign of love.After I explained about that I fell in love with her,She declined.She cosiders me as brother.But I don't think or relation ship is about brotherly and sisterly when I noticed the way she acts and the sign she gave.Amid of this,I am living with them just as a way of pursuing my academy from other areas.I often feel regret and ashamed of myself when I met my uncle not her.What can I do? I can capable of living apart.

She is your aunt for crying out loud (even if by marriage only)... this shouldn't even be a discussion. Get yourself out of that situation and I believe there is a huge difference between love and infatuation.

Move out of the house. You have created an uncomfortable situation. What if your uncle were to find out?

Move out, you have crossed a line with this one. You need to remove yourself from the situation before it gets further out of control

You should feel sorry for your uncle, but remove yourself from this situation.

Your not in love.

I agree with the others. It is time to move out. You're a post-grad student, time to move on.

Thinking that your aunt is pretty is one thing; saying you've fallen in love with her has crossed the line.

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Originally Posted by bizu

I can capable of living apart.

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Hello bizu:

Falling in love with her is cool. You can't help that. DOING or SAYING something about it, though, ISN'T. I'd move as quickly as I could.

excon

You may not be able to control feelings, but you should have never ever said anything, you should move out

Bizu,

1. Move

2. When you have some distance, and a girlfriend, apologize to your family members.