First off I have two questions to ask that I really hope someone can answer as soon as possible please...

My first question is my friend has given a guy oral sex and swallowed his a few times and then a week later they she gave him oral sex again and then they were dry humping with all their clothes on and she said she could feel his penis in her vagina.. she recently started her period when she was supposed to but could she be pregnant??


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My other friend has had unprotected sex with a guy two days before her period and it started two days after she had sex and then it stopped two days after she got it and she said it was very light and she has these weird feelings in her stomach but their not pains could she be pregnant?

If someone could please answer these questtions as soon as possible It would be very appreciated

Hello a:

You don't get pregnant from swallowing. You can't insert a penis in a vagina WITH YOUR CLOTHES ON. You friend could be pregnant.

excon

uhm... for the first scenario... it Isn't "dry humping" if he is inside her. Period! She is havind sex.

so is she pregnant? NOBODY here can answer that. No physician would EVER diagnose her as such over a computer... but is it possible?. hell yes! She is menstruating/ovulating and having unprotected sex. That = possible pregnancy. It isn't more complicated than that.

oral on a guy first and then penetration after can likely result in sperm inserted into her if he did not urinate. Sperm can survive in the urethra for some time... so if she got him off and then he inserted... there is penetration and likely sperm present inside her...

as for the second scenario... just like the first case, she is having unprotected sex and can be pregnant. NOBODY can tell her if she is or not. Many "pregnancy symptoms" are seen in other situations...

so... all we have learned is you have friends who are being idiots about their bodies.

they are exposing themselves to pregnancy and potential stds. That is a fact, not an opinion.

I hope you have more sense than they do... not to say that protection is foolproof... not to say that a young woman using the pill or a condom isn't going to get pregnant. My partner became pregnant while methodically tracking her cycle and using protection. Oops happens.

but concerning your friends... your ultimate question is "could they be pregnant" and the honest answer is "yes" it is possible. Not know. Not for certain. Maybe not. But still possible.

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Originally Posted by excon

Hello a:

You don't get pregnant from swallowing. You can't insert a penis in a vagina WITH YOUR CLOTHES ON. You friend could be pregnant.

excon

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Hi which friend could b pregnant? The one with the unprotected sex or the one with the dry humping?? Plzz answer asap

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Originally Posted by angelbaby93

hi which friend could b pregnant? the one with the unprotected sex or the one with the dry humping??? plzz answer asap

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Ok say my friend was dry humping with a guy and they were fully clothed and he didn't and she was giving him oral sex before that and they were dry humping with clothes on and she thought she felt his penis inside her vagina but he didn't in her?? Could she still b pregnant

dear Lord...

unprotected sex can get you pregnant. Period.

near as I can tell, from your description, they BOTH are having unprotected sex. Penetration = intercourse.

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Originally Posted by kp2171

dear Lord...

unprotected sex can get you pregnant. period.

near as i can tell, from your description, they BOTH are having unprotected sex. penetration = intercourse.

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If they had clothes on could his penis still penetrate??

Sex is penis in vagina. So, if she felt his penis in her vagina, yes, she's having sex, yes, pregnancy is possible.

Oral sex does not cause pregnancy, anal sex does not cause pregnancy, vaginal sex can cause pregnancy, even with protection.

I think it's time for your friends to get an education about sex before the fit hits the shan and one of them ends up pregnant, or gets an STD.

There's no excuse for ignorance, there are too many books and other tools out there to educate you on sex. It's time to research if you're not learning this at home or in school, because bringing a child into the world is a very real consequence of these actions, so is an STD and not all of them are treatable, some are a death sentence.

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Originally Posted by angelbaby93

if they had clothes on could his penis still penetrate???

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Are you sure she's telling you the truth about all of this?

If she felt his penis in her vagina then I doubt they had clothes on.

This scenario isn't right.

Keep in mind, a condom isn't 100% fool proof, so would cotton underwear be?

Still, doesn't sound right to me.

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Originally Posted by angelbaby93

My first question is my friend has given a guy oral sex and swallowed his a few times and then a week later they she gave him oral sex again and then they were dry humping with all their clothes on and she said she could feel his penis in her vagina .. she recently started her period when she was supposed to but could she be pregnant???

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Please explain how he could have his clothes on and also penetrate her. It's a trick I just haven't learned yet.

If she is saying that they were wearing clothes and with pressure she felt him against her vagina, that is different. If they were really "dry" with clothes on, the chance is much lower. Your saying he was inside her is the point of conflict here...

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Originally Posted by kp2171

please explain how he could have his clothes on and also penetrate her. its a trick i just havent learned yet.

if she is saying that they were wearing clothes and with pressure she felt him against her vagina, that is different. if they were really "dry" with clothes on, the chance is much lower. your saying he was inside her is the point of conflict here...

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Had to spread the rep. You said it better then I did. That's my question as well. Penetration with clothing, not possible.

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Originally Posted by kp2171

please explain how he could have his clothes on and also penetrate her. its a trick i just havent learned yet.

if she is saying that they were wearing clothes and with pressure she felt him against her vagina, that is different. if they were really "dry" with clothes on, the chance is much lower. your saying he was inside her is the point of conflict here...

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Yes that's what I meant I didn't know the wording for it with pressure she felt him against her vagina and they were fully clothed could she still get pregnant from that?

Maybe they should all just back off until they know what they are doing. There is too much at stake to be playing guessing games.

How old are the friends in question?

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Originally Posted by angelbaby93

yes thats what i meant i didnt know the wording for it with pressure she felt him against her vagina and they were fully clothed could she still get pregnant from that?

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The sperm has to get into the vagina in order for pregnancy to occur.

If they were both fully clothed, no ejaculation, then no, it's very unlikely that she's pregnant.

The fact that she doesn't know this is very scary, alarming, and doesn't sit well with me.

Her body is her responsibility. Sex=babies, that's the bottom line.

They may just be dry humping now, but how long before they actually have sex? This is just the start of something that will eventually lead to sex.

Does she know that even protected sex can result in pregnancy? How old is she? How old is her boyfriend?

There's a reason that adults say to wait, because the consequences of these actions are too much for a teen to handle.

No sex until you're educated about sex. No penetration without the knowledge of possible outcomes.

This just scares me to death.

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Originally Posted by kp2171

how old are the friends in question?

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Their 16 going to be 17 and I was only asking because I'm curious and they were asking me to look it up for them because they don't know what their looking up and apparently I don't either and I'm only 16 and I don't know that much about sex but my boyfriend told me that from dry humping fully clothed you can not get pregnant

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Originally Posted by angelbaby93

Their 16 going to be 17 and i was only asking because im curious and they were asking me to look it up for them bcuz they dont know what their looking up and apparently i dont either and im only 16 and i dont know that much about sex but my boyfriend told me that from dry humping fully clothed u can not get pregnant

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I know it sounds like we're being harsh, maybe we are, but only out of concern.

This is very real, not just something to play around with. Sex is a major step, something that shouldn't be taken lightly.

Know the facts of sex before having sex. I'm not asking you to wait until marriage, but you should at least know what you're doing and the consequences of what you're doing before you do it.

You wouldn't stick a gun to your head and pull the trigger without checking to see if it's loaded. So don't have sex until you know everything you need to know about sex.

Really, we just want what's best for all of you.

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

I know it sounds like we're being harsh, maybe we are, but only out of concern.

This is very real, not just something to play around with. Sex is a major step, something that shouldn't be taken lightly.

Know the facts of sex before having sex. I'm not asking you to wait until marriage, but you should at least know what you're doing and the consequences of what you're doing before you do it.

You wouldn't stick a gun to your head and pull the trigger without checking to see if it's loaded. So don't have sex until you know everything you need to know about sex.

Really, we just want what's best for all of you.

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Thank you all for answering my questions

Unfortunately the answer isn't easy... honestly, "dry" with clothes on, is really much less likely to result in pregnancy than any kind of intercourse... with withdrawal, protection, etc...

But, I'm not going to sit here and try to figure out how much is "safe"... what... am I supposed to say "dry" is OK in all cases? Hell no. if he comes and he saturates his clothing and he is pressed against her could it happen? Sure. Less likely than with intercourse? Yes. What was he wearing? What was she wearing? Underwear against panties isn't the same as jeans and underwear against shorts and panties... but I'm not going to sit here and address that noise.

Clothes on both kids... its much less likely.

But you asked about possible. And possible has a big arse domain... a wide spread... improbable things happen... if he came in his clothes, saturated his clothes, and pressed into her... is it possible. Oh sure. Not likely isn't the same as not possible.

Any time you are sexually active you resign yourself to the possibility of pregnancy.

It isn't the same as intercourse. I wouldn't be as worried as id be with penetration... but really... never say never. Once you start walking around sexual activity you open yourself up to many possibilities. That is a fact, not an opinion.

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Originally Posted by angelbaby93

Thank you all for answering my questions

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That's why we're here.

There's no stupid question. I'm glad you asked because it's important to have all the information available to you in order to make an informed decision.

Take care and good luck. :)