I've been talking to this girl for some time she is 26 and has slept with 26 guys is this normal or too much in other words should I be careful? I don't want to judge her but I got to feel some kind of emotion towards this issue.

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Originally Posted by mr_X

ive been talking to this girl for some time she is 26 and has slept with 26 guys is this normal or too much in other words should i be careful? i dont wanna judge her but i gotta feel some kind of emotion towards this issue.

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With the way things are now, it is normal. Just try to find out the time span in which she slept with this many people, if they are all within a few years, stay clear! If you really like her, don't let this scare you away. Just be sure that before you have sex with her that you both get STD and HIV tests! She might take it wrong, but it will help you to be safe and if she can't understand that, then she isn't worth your time

I personally think its too much, But what's too much in this day and age :confused: :cool:

OK... if she had been in bed with 26 men that means one guy a year... the question is she a nice person... holds a great conversation... active... has other interest... is not dilly in the center... gives you the attention when you need it... I bet she is not counting the women you have been with... some women prefer men that had other sexual conquests... If she is this reasonable person then you have no problem... the only issue is safe sex... cover it up and use spermicide... make sure she is on some sort of birth control and make sure that if you do not want any children... do... make sure you have addressed that issue... enjoy the adventure and protect yourself... any thing else is a waste of time...

Please, Please, Please - HIV TEST!

If you really care about her & are thinking of having sex with her - you should tell her your worries. It doesn't necessarily mean that she's a bad person - but that she's made some poor decisions. If she is ashamed & wishes she hadn't been that promiscuous - then I might would give her a chance. If she doesn't seem to care - or thinks that's normal then I would suggest really take a close look at what type of person she is & decide if she is really the kind of person you want to be around.

Me Tooooo I Think That's Too Much N She's Just 26 Ok But U Kno If U Like Her Go Ahead B With Her But Heyy Protect Yourself U Kno Wit Waat N Everythin Will B Find

I don't like to judge people either but I think that number is too much

Well, everyone has their own opinion, but only yours counts. Just make sure you are having protected sex with her in the first place, this will be able to take a lot of weight off your shoulders regarding this subject.
If you are concerned about your personal moral thoughts about the issue-then you may not want to mess with her at all. No one can decide that for you. Only you know what makes you comfortable. Best of luck

I think it's WAAAAAAAAAY too much.

Yeah man we can't judge but u know u got to think if u want to b for real wit her or just a messin around

Being only 26, that means she's been with 2-3 guys every year since high school.

I think that's normal for a hot, young, single... party girl.

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Originally Posted by mr_X

ive been talking to this girl for some time she is 26 and has slept with 26 guys is this normal or too much in other words should i be careful? i dont wanna judge her but i gotta feel some kind of emotion towards this issue.

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I think girls sleep around for a reason, maybe she has low self esteem and that is the only way she can get attention. Don't judge her just ask why? I bet you she is not proud f it. Maybe she was sexually abused young and doesn't know any other way!

Yeah that's too much.

Use protection at all times. Duh! 26 different men?? Pretty short relationships you think?

Yup, I agree. Party girl. But, she might be ready to settle down. Only you can judge that. That is, if you have the necessary experience to do it. If you don't... well, it's a risk to put your heart completely into it. Take your time. ;) Good luck.

Yeah but maybe you know girls sometimes they just want to be famous in school and they do at ever they see to become famous including having sex with the basketball team you know but now is your turn to make a desition.

I am not going to say one way or the other. Just remember that you too are sleeping with all 26 of those people.

If you only want to sleep with her, wear a condom. Otherwise you are at risk for any disease any one of those 26 men could have had.

How would you know unless she told you? Wear a condom and thank her for her honesty.