I am 12 and I have ben having a bad couple of weeks well I feel like everyone hate me and I don't know about what 2 do well what happened was my 2 friends back stabbed me told my boyfriend to dump me he did and they think I am to boy crazy annoying a dumb blond and all this other stuff people have said I am nice but flirt with my friends boyfriends and I don't like them at all I am just friends with a bunch of them and I don't want to loss all my friends and I still like my ex boyfriend and I just want things 2 go back to normal and I have done nothing 2 these people and just so you know I moved in the middle of the year from brazil :(

Hi, cokiefrost1122!

So, what good things are going on in your life, please?

Thanks!

If he would dump you just because of what someone said to him, he was not really a "real" boyfriend anyway.

You may want to look at how you act around your others, what is nothing to you may seem like flirting to others

But at 12 boyfriends will come and go often though the next 5 or 6 years.

Well let me tell you; I'm pretty sure, if not 100% positive that those girls are jealous of you. Your new and chances are have that gorgeous flare most Brazilian girls have. Most 12 year olds don't know how to handle jealousy other than trying to rip the other person apart.

I know it'll get to you but try making new friends.

It is summertime, so why not try volunteering at:
•retirement homes
•animal shelters
•food banks

I'm sure there are many more.

How about a paper route?

Take it easy kiddo, don't let it get to you. AMHD is here for support.

Sarah

Your friends are being haters. Why would they do that if you and your boyfriend are going out and they made him break up with you.
But maybe they do have a point. Maybe you just might be coming on to strong when you talk 2 other boys. While having one of your own