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I have a few questions. First off we moved to Nebraska back in October from Oklahoma so do we need to go by both sets of abandonment laws for my husband to adopt my son or just Nebraska's? My son's biological father or sperm donor as I call him currently still lives in Oklahoma last I heard. When we moved to Nebraska he hadn't seen or talked to our son in over eight months.. I always made sure he had our address, phone number, and knew where I worked. Ever since we separated in 2006 he has only seen his son on a few occasions. Usually when he came to see him though it was at three in the morning and he knew he would be in bed. Over the last three years he has given me about $40 for child support. He has a history of drug use and his family is extremely violent. Where should we start for this process. Would trying to get him to sign his rights over first be the best way or should we just file for abandonment? I know he doesn't care what happens to his son but I have a feeling if I ask him to sign over his rights he will argue or fight just to upset me.