OK me and my boyfriend had sex the 4th of this month and we didn't use a condom.
Am I pregnant or not?

But the thing is I took a pregnancy test today and it came back negative, is it too early too take one or what, and plus I went too the bathroom earlier and noticed that I was bleeding and I isn't suppose too start my period until the 19th or 20th, so can anyone tell me what's going on?

I need help!!

The best way to determine if you are pregnant is to go to the doctor. They can take your blood and for sure determine. If you don't want anyone to know, contact plan parenthood they will conduct a free and confidential exam on you.

It's too soon to tell. You will have to wait until your period is late and then take another HPT. When in doubt, call your Gyno for an exam.

But I don't want my parents too know because I don't want them mad at me, and I'm wondering did I have a miscarriage

It is too soon to say. It takes several days for sperm to reach the egg. So we can't give you a definitive answer.

You should talk to your parents about this. If you are pregnant, they will find out. If you're not, they should take you to get on birth control. It sounds like a conversation is past due one way or the other.

No one on this site can tell you whether you're pregnant or if you miscarried. We simply don't have that kind of power.

You are in possession of every thing we need to give you a definite answer, your body, your urine and your blood. Without that we can only guess.

Wait until your period is late, then take an hpt, use first morning urine as it's more accurate.

If you start to bleed heavily, fill up a pad every hour, then see your doctor immediately.

Just so you know, sex=babies, so if you're afraid that your parents will find out then stop having sex or at least lower the odds (not delete them) by using protection.

By having unprotected sex you're playing with a loaded gun, sooner or later you're going to get shot.

Good luck.

I'm not your parents, and *I* am mad at you!

Your parents have every REASON to be mad at you! Don't you think so? You're doing something dangerous and potentially life changing (for them, as well as you), and possibly VERY expensive.

I don't want to support ANOTHER Welfare baby with taxes.

Get your butt on birth control or stop having sex.

As far as whether you are pregnant---when you miss a period, take a pregnancy test. The probability of it being a miscarriage this early is VERY low. You are probably just getting an early period.

Welcome to the waiting game--fit punishment for those people who are too silly or too stupid to think it can't happen to THEM, so they don't use birth control.