Hello,

When we are making love and my wife is in front, the intensity of everything is greater, for both of us.

But on reaching orgasm, if I don't mostly withdraw, it feels as if my penis is being pinched, to the point that I don't ejaculate.

If I bring up the topic with her, she will take it criticism (which it is not) or just see it as yet another reason to feel bad about herself (she's in counseling for self-esteem & other issues already).

Has anyone encountered this? Is the best way through this to keep doing what I've been doing? She doesn't seem to care that I mostly withdraw when I come...

Thanks!

If you're both enjoying yourselves--why change? Do what works for YOU, and don't worry about what is "normal" or not.

Is your penis being pinched because she's having an orgasm? If so, why don't you pull back slightly, not pull out completely, wait until her orgasm subsides and then ejaculate?

Alternatively, you can roll over at the last minute and finish off with you on top.

You might try lifting her shoulders up so she's kneeling at the critical moment. It may or may not help, but it is a different sensation.

If she doesn't mind then why change it? If it works for all parties concerned then go for it. Maybe have her put her knees just a bit further apart, it'll change the angle a bit so she isn't able to clench as tightly