What's the nomal steps in a relationship with the white/western guy? The couple have their first sex after 2 weeks? Isn't that too fast for both of them? Especially for the white guy hook up with the Asian girl. So what do you guys think about what's the nomall time for both of them have their first sex in a relationship?

The decision (or even if) to have sex while dating is a very personal one. Each couple must decide on the right time. Both should be comfortable with moving to this phase. There's no "standard" answer to this question; it's a matter of personal preference.

"Normal" is a wide variety today. It just doesn't mean much. If you want the relationship to work, you all have to have good communication. Having sex after 2 weeks is a bit early for me, but not for some people.

It is normal to have your 'first sex' in a relationship when both people feel comfortable with it. I think that it's good to get to know each other first, get to like each other and take it from there.

There is no prescribed time frame - but as an example, I have always waited a couple of months to have sex with the guys that I really liked.

Waiting until you know each other better makes it much nicer and more meaningful.

The whole point of dating to answer questions like these.

There are never set limits and don't think that ethnic origin will really count for setting one. Each person is different and therefore will react differently to every individual they meet. There is no time seen as too fast or too slow. When you both feel comfortable then the time is right.

My advice is if you are questioning whether the time is right then it probably isn't. Talk to your partner air your feelings and let the relationship grow until you have no doubts in your mind that you are both ready. The key is always communication if you want to progress then do but at your own pace don't set yourself to the standards of anyone but yourself in your relationship. Live by your heart and head not by the heads of those around you. Keep going and live with no regrets.

Did you want to have sex with him?

It doesn't matter if your White, Black, Asian, etc. If the two of you are two consenting adults and wanted to have sex then you can have whenever you want to.

Time will tell if that is all he wanted--which I think your indirectly asking.

Didn't we just answer this question?

No one can tell you when to have sex, that's up to you and the guy you're with. Do you want to have sex? Are you ready to have sex with someone you've known for 2 weeks? Are you prepared to face the consequences of sex, pregnancy, STD's etc?

It's up to you, it's up to him, not us.

Good luck.

Asking when it's normal to have sex is like asking when it's normal for people to go to sleep every night, or when dinner is, or how often to go out for dinner---it's going to vary from person to person.

There is no such thing as "normal".