Hi!
I need some advice. My boyfriend just broke up with me about 2 month ago. We were together for 6 years and 9 mnd. The last 3 years we had a long distance relationship, which have been very difficult for us. Suddenly out of the blue he said that he needs some space. He wanted to be for himself for a while. I thougt it just was his stress because he was finhised the school and was trying to seek for a job. At that time I also had a bad periode. I was tired of everything, and didn't care about him. So I said to him that our relationship is in trouble. He didn't courage to break up with me, I had to help him. Deep in my heart I was hoping that he would tried to give us a chance. I took the break up very badly and so did he. I don't have so contact with him now, only the first month. I know deep in my heart that he still loves me, but the sparkle beetween us was gone as he said. I forgot to tell that we are eachothers first love.
Now I know that he is already seeing someone else. I think they are in a romantic thing. She is his classmate. And its kills me. First time that I contact him after a month without no contact I asked him if he were flirting just to show him that I was OK. He said that he is not, but he is have more contact with other girls now. Why did he not tell me? I know that he cares for me. The thing is that I am really happy that he is seeing someone to find himself etc. But I want him to realise that he want to give us a chance. We had a great thing going on. We were planning to if we stick together until summer, everytning would be better.
I love him so much that its hurts. Because I have so much more to give. And I know he still loves me. I know that he wants to fall in love again, and I want him to. I want him to be happy. I don't know if he is in rebound with her or not. But one thing I know it's that I don't want to give up on us.
What can I do to win him back