Is it the right decision?
Assala mu Alaikum..
I have a friend who is going to get married within some months . She prays regularly and is very fond of gaining knowledge in Islam. Her to be husband was suppose to get married to another girl before my friend. But he then refused to marry her because her attitude was wrong. And things she use to do made the man angry and upset. He was a very bad guy before and as she use to upset him,he use to talk bad to that girl and give her and her family very high bad words.. But the girl(my friend) now who he is suppose to get married Alhamdullillah completely changed him by giving him thoughts and fear of Allah n His punishments.
But that past girl who he was suppose to get married before could not resist the fact of him marrying someone else and started insulting him through sms. She tells him and his family bad and very bad words.. His mother is a widow but that girl talks bad and insults his dead father very very grossly..
Eg:ur dad sold your mom to people and died.. Ur father was also a p**p. I am sorry to use such a language.. That girl knows my friend and is spreading really bad rumours about her in her university.
But my friend says nothing and tells her to be husband to keep quiet and leave it on Allah (SWT). My friend says that he has done wrong with that girl by not marrying her. But she should complain about him to Allah so that He punishes him. But she is not giving a chance to Allah to make justice..
At times I tell her and her to be husband to do something about that girl but my friend says to keep quiet and says Allah is watching everything and we will get the reward for it..
This is increasing day by day, but they are not saying anything to the girl.. Is my friend right by taking these decisions or should they take a step to stop that female.. I am confused, please reply quickly as she is my best friend and they both are very dearly to me.
Assalamu Alaikum..