Yesterday I went for the first time to my girlfriend's house to meet her mom and spend some time with her, her mom acted sweetly, and gave me a good impression, but I never knew what she really thought of me. Nothing happened between my girlfriend and I that day but a few occasionally kisses and her mom never noticed it.
Today in the morning, my girlfriend told me that she could not date me anymore because her mom said so.

How old are you two?

Not only how old are you but how old are the two of you?

If she is under 18 than her mother is the law. She has to obey her and do what she says.

Also, you might have thought she didn't see the two of you kiss but mothers have eyes in the back of their head and we aren't stupid. You can't away with nothing.

Moms do have eyes on the back of their heads you know.

If she's a minor I could understand why her mother would be so protective. If you really want to be with this girl you could talk to her mother and apologize for being disrespectful.

Sarah

Personally I always come equipped with a silver cross an a wooden stake anytime I have to visit any of my girlfriends mums.
Also you may think her mum never noticed but they have eyes in the back of there heads... well at least mine does. :S

Personally just give it a break for awhile and see what happens because if you make a big thing about it then it will probably only get worse for you.
Talk with your girlfriends and get her views on it but don't get all hyper and angry at her mum or anything like that because remember it's her family... and family come first.
Be calm, be relaxed and take one day at a time with working this out with her.

Another question "did the girl tell you what her mom didn't like about you" or did she just say "my mom doesn't like you"?

I'm 17 she is 16

She... said that my hair was weird, but that's all... well, its been a week now and seriously its not getting better, I still like her as much as I did when we dated.

Under 18, what mom says goes. Lesson learned, under 18 and you are at the mercy of the parents approval.

Get a haircut, maybe that will help.

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Nothing happened between my girlfriend and I that day but a few occasionally kisses and her mom never noticed it.

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Never underestimate what a parent knows, and as you have found out they may smile, and be nice, but when it comes to their own child, especially a daughter even with your act together they may not like you.

I suggest you respect what you have been told and not cause trouble because you will lose that battle.

Just me I would spruce up a bit and talk to her mom and find out what's really on her mind. See what your g/f-ex(?) thinks of this idea.

She really doesn't like much the idea of me talking with her mom, and that's a little suspicious; I've been trying to talk with her mom since the day I met her, but every time I try to go to their house and talk with her mom, my gf-friend (I don't even know by now) asks me to turn around and leave.

Then I would be getting another girlfriend. Its not worth the hassle and drama.