I am 18 years old and I seem to have trouble ejaculating.. the only way I seem to be able to "Cuum" is when I masturbate or after a long time having sex. I have a pretty large penis.. and I was wondering would that have some sort of side effect to this whole situation? Are there pills I can take? Is it all in my mind? I need help.. :confused:

Hi there chick don't worry you are not alone. Have you tried getting a lot of foreplay? This tends to help. If you feel that you are being selfish in sex try 69r this will allow you to both receive pleasure. Then when you come to the actual act of sex it might be easier for you to ejaculate.
Also are you relaxing during sex? If not that will straightaway make it far harder for you to orgasm and ejaculate.

The size of your penis has nothing to do with being able to ejaculate.
Has this Always been the case? Have you always had trouble being able to have an orgasm?
If so, you might want to see a doctor to see if there is a problem.

Also side thought! How long is long ? Don't be embaressed! I'm 19 and I'm just thinking it might be your perception of a long time.

If you do a lot of excessive masturbation you get so used to that feel, you control all the pressure that you get "hooked" onto the own feel of your hand so that other feelings don't do it for you as well.

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Originally Posted by griffers90

Also side thought! How long is long ? don't be embaressed! I'm 19 and I'm just thinking it might be your perception of a long time.

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How long as in sex? Around an hour perhaps an hour and a half? Sometimes It dragged on to two hours.. at which point it was very hard to ejaculate because the side of my quads were warn out.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

If you do alot of excessive masterbation you get so used to that feel, you control all the pressure that you get "hooked" onto the own feel of your hand so that other feelings don't do it for you as well.

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Do you think If I stopped masturbating so much that I would get those "feelings" back? Because right now my girlfriend who is 16.. wants to wait until she is 18. So I only ejaculate during masturbation .

Help?

Well depending on where you live, you need to wait till she is 18, since many places it is illegal for a 16 year old to have sex.

And personally unless both of you are ready to be parents you need to wait also.

But yes, if you don't masterbate for a few weeks, it should be a lot easier.

If I masturbated for two hours I would be sore for a week, you need to find a better way.

When I do finally ejaculate... A lot comes out. Is this normal?

And vitamin b12 and omega 3 will keep your sperm count up, so make sure you have your full daily allowence if not then %10 more then your daily allowence but have no less then %100 rda.

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Originally Posted by real soldier

and vitamin b12 and omega 3 will keep ur sperm count up, so make sure u have ur full daily allowence if not then %10 more then ur daily allowence but have no less then %100 rda.

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How does this address his question?

I think the others have given some sound advice.
1. Penis size has nothing to do with how fast you will climax
2. Cut back on the masturbation
3. If your GF is only 16, you shouldn't be having sex with her anyway

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Originally Posted by moodsterman

When I do finally ejaculate... ALOT comes out. Is this normal?

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It may not be as much as you think it is. But if it seems to be "a lot", that may be normal for you.

At the end of the day I've studied body science for 5 years so what you just said don't mean anything.

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Originally Posted by real soldier

at the end of the day ive studied body science for 5 years so wot u jsut sed dont mean anything.

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That's great but you didn't address his question.

You should try penis workouts such as jelqing, if you masterbate to often your body becomes used ot it and the sensation will decrease, physically it won't but mentaly it will, and every time you masterbate you release male hormone, my suggeston for now is don't masterbate for a few days but get turned on with pornogrohpy or summin but don't masterbate, try it

And to increase your testoserone which will help, you have to get 8 hours sleep minimum and 11 hours maximum, don't eat within 2 hours of sleep , and don't have any sugar after exersice, you can before but not after.

And the phycology of it, is that you may be so concerned that its on your mind during sex, and this won't help

You should have food such as gin seng, foo foo, horny goat cheese, and granola, it will increase sex drive you will be able to within 20 minutes and keep going afterwards

Real soldier, I have no idea what thread you are answering because most of your answers make no sense in relation to the OP's questions. Please cite your references for the information you're doling out.

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Originally Posted by real soldier

you should have food such as gin seng, foo foo, horny goat cheese, and granola, it will increase sex drive you will be able to within 20 mins and keep going afterwards

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Where did the OP say anything about lacking sex-drive?