Hi, I have a problem when I am having sexual intercourse or even oral stimulation with my husband I feel as though I have to pee and it distracts me and I can't enjoy myself because the whole time I am trying to not to pee. I always use the bathroom before and after sexual intercourse and I have read everything about what it could be like him hitting my g-spot and I just don't think that is it at all because this has only recently became a problem. Now when I have an orgasm I pee not a lot but enough to be noticed right before I am about to orgasm and like I said I have never had this problem and as crazy as it sounds I don't want to have an orgasm because of this. I know its urine I know females can ejaculate white stuff during orgasms but it is urine. Any advice would be great! Thank you!!

Have you been to the doc to rule out infection?

Just a thought.

I agree with J-9 check for infections and then I add bladder problems... are you having bowel problems?. then go to the doctor and tell him/her that you and urinating at not the appropriate time... for now,. there is a exercise that you can use contact J-9... she will know the exercise...

The exercise is called the Kegel Exercise. When you urinate, you need to squeeze your vaginal muscles to stop the flow of urine. Do this several times druing your stream and off and on during the day.

Have you ever been tested for STDs? I am not saying you have one, mind you, but this can be a symptom of a few.

Just a way out thought here.

Yea I have heard of those exercises too. I know it wouldn't be an STD but I am not offended by you throwing it out there.
THanks for your advice.

I am glad you are not offended. I really did not want to offend you, but there are several STDs that have no symptoms that can cause this kind of reaction.

You should probably talk with a urologist to make sure everything is okay with your bladder and urethra. And I don't mean STDs this time. Just to make sure everything is working correctly. But a urologist would be your best bet.