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  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:10 AM
    ROSE 2
    How it's happen
    Hi

    I don't know more about sex because its my first time.

    I had a sex with my Boy firend on the second day I finish my prieod.

    Its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan

    And today is due date and still I didn't have my prieod..

    Can I have some explantion about the pregnancy . How its happen mostly? And what are the sine..

    Thanks..
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:18 AM
    ROSE 2
    How to know?
    Hi

    How can I know that am virgian .

    Help me to resolve this problem . My boy friend told me that when we have sex he smale bed smale from my bottem part..

    How can I resolve this ?
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:19 AM
    Holly23

    Its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan

    Im sorry I don't understand this line, could you make it clearer so I can give you an appropriate answer please, and also if you don't mind me asking your age?
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:20 AM
    J_9
    Having sex to become pregnant means that the man inserts his penis into your vagina. If this happened, you are no longer a virgin and it is possible to get pregnant this way.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:22 AM
    Holly23

    If his penis was inserted into your vagina you are no longer a virgin.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:25 AM
    adam_89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ROSE 2 View Post
    hi

    How can i know that am virgian .

    help me to resolve this problem . my boy friend told me that when we have sex he smale bed smale from my bottem part ..
    how can i resolve this ?

    What is this supposed to mean?

    Like the previous post said, If there was any Insertion of his genitals then you are no longer a virgin.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:43 AM
    jmjoseph
    You shouldn't be having sex until you learn more about it. And brushing up on the ENGLISH LANGUAGE wouldn't hurt, if you are expecting to learn anything here.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:45 AM
    Holly23
    [And brushing up on the ENGLISH LANGUAGE wouldn't hurt, if you are expecting to learn anything here.[/QUOTE]

    Im sorry but she came here for help and information not to be critizied.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:47 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    You shouldn't be having sex until you learn more about it. And brushing up on the ENGLISH LANGUAGE wouldn't hurt, if you are expecting to learn anything here.

    This is a worldwide website. It represents ALL cultures. Maybe you need to be a little more sensitive to cultures other than your own. English may not be her first language.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:48 AM
    Holly23

    Its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan


    Im not sure but I think she was saying they had anal sex and sometimes penis to vagina penintration
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:49 AM
    jmjoseph
    I didn't mean that to sound hateful, did YOU understand what she said?
  • Jun 6, 2009, 05:51 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    I didn't mean that to sound hateful, did YOU understand what she said?

    Yup.

    They sometimes have anal sex and other times have vaginal sex.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 06:11 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    jmjoseph disagrees: My grandparents came from the middle east, you don't know my culture.
    Thanks for the reddie. But my grandparents came from Russia and Poland. You don't know MY culture.

    I can say, though, through a few years of experience here, that this person does not speak the Queen's English. How DARE you to tell her to brush up on her english! Who do you think you are?
  • Jun 6, 2009, 06:17 AM
    jmjoseph
    J9, Peace, I was just saying this was incoherent ( to me ) WOW, maybe I should brush up on MY english, I didn't mean it in a hateful way. I obviously worded it wrong. Sorry to all.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 06:19 AM
    ScottGem

    Comments on this post
    jmjoseph disagrees: My grandparents came from the middle east, you don't know my culture.

    First, may I call your attention to the guidelines for using the comments feature found here:

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/feedba...ure-24951.html

    Your use of the comments feature was inappropriate. However, while you could have been more sensitive in your post, your point is well taken. While this is a worldwide site, posts and answers are in english, therefore, if a poster wants help, they should try to compose their question in reasonably coherent english (this includes those who want to use chatspeak!)

    While I interpreted the OP similarly to J_9, it was a guess and I'm not 100% sure that is what was meant. So it would be appreciated if the OP clarified what she said.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 06:24 AM
    jmjoseph
    Scottgem, Sorry for the mis-understanding , I'm still new. Just trying to set things straight, didn't mean to misuse the "comments". Again , sorry to all.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 07:39 AM
    shazamataz

    I think you mean anal sex?

    Technically you may still be a virgin if his penis did not enter your vagina..
    Be careful though, although anal sex cannot get you pregnant you can still contract std's.
  • Jun 6, 2009, 08:58 AM
    bronzebabe

    If his penis was in your vagina, you are NOT a virgin.
    Please, since you don't even KNOW, get on the pill, and use a condom, or you will get pregnant or get a disease!
  • Jun 7, 2009, 06:19 AM
    griffers90

    Same as the others said if his penis went into your vagina you are no longer a virgin.
    You do need to get on some contraception but know that the pill will stop pregnancy but only condoms stop STIs or STDs. You say that he said there was a bad smell? You may have a Urinery infection if your urine is cloudy or you are sore around your vaginal area you must see a doctor its only a case of anibiotics but it can get really bad if left untreated. Also whilst you're there talk about sex and contraception. REMEMBER anything said to your doctor is highly confidential.
  • Jun 7, 2009, 06:31 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    It is obvouis that you have no knowledge of sex and should not be doing anything with your boyfriend
    ( and esp trusting what he says)

    Please research sex on the internet and find out all about birth control and more.

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