5 day pay or quit - What's next?
My husband was out of work for 6 months and he just now landed a job, and a good one. We've scratched, scraped and borrowed, even donated plasma to make our bills. We've had yard sales and practically sold everything we own. In this 6 months we were only behind 2 weeks when our landlord's daughter put a 5 day pay or quit in our door. We almost missed it because it fell to the floor on our way out and it was dark.
I have a couple of questions... Our lease is with our landlord. He is 89 and really a very sweet man. We did not even know about his daughters when we rented this house. Ever since December if rent was even 1 day late she would begin harassing us and threatening us. This is not the first pay or quit she's given us, she gave us one back in December and says "This isn't even filed with the courts, it's just a notice."
Well, so they gave us another one on Monday June 1. They said THEY, meaning his daughters and his nephew are going to file the unlawful detainer. His nephew comes and tells us they don't want us even speaking to the landlord anymore unless it's to take him money. He loves our company or so we thought. Anyway, his daughter believes he shouldn't be social with us.
We also had a verbal agreement to catch up totally by the end of June or we volunteered to leave and he said he didn't want that. We would have all of the money, May's and by that time June's rent as well but it seems they aren't interested.
I guess my questions are:
#1: Can anyone except my landlord file the unlawful detainer? I mean an his daughters or nephew go to the court house and get this?
#2: Is this handwritten thing they put in my door a legal notice?
#3: Once they get the unlawful detainer how will I be notified of the court date and do I get a court date only if I answer?
Thanks - I live in Va.