Hi everyone I have been trying to get pregnant for sometime now almost 4 years and I haven't got pregnant not once... now I have a new fiancé and I want to to give him and me a child but I don't know what's wrong... I am a little over weight but I know so many big and overweight females that have gotten pregnant my period is always on the right track only a couple of times it has gotten off track... but not lately... I just want to know if its me or what it is that isn't getting me pregnant...

Without asking why you have been trying to get pregnant for four years when you JUST NOW have a new fiancé...

There is simply no way to know until you go get a fertility test

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Originally Posted by DrJizzle

Without asking why you have been trying to get pregnant for four years when you JUST NOW have a new fiance...

there is simply no way to know until you go get a fertility test

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Well I had another fiancé but we went our seprate ways and now I have new man in my life and we just got engaged and we both want a baby and we have been trying to get pregnant but nothing has happened can the depo shot have anything to do with it its been like 8 years since I have been on it could there be anyway that could be the reason why I haven't got pregnant

If you have been actively trying for the last four years, it is time to see your doctor for a discussion about the possibility of some testing. Weight can be an issue for some women, but it may also be weight is a "symptom" of other issues that can effect fertility, such as a thyroid concern or PCOS.