So my ex boyfriend,T, has a girlfriend, but calls me all the time. He also chats with me on Facebook all the time and he would do anything for me and we are good friends and everything but I'm confused does he still like me or is he just being a good friend. Like he always interested in what I'm feeling and stuff like past couple weeks I was sad and stuff but I always at least tried to look happy but he saw threw that and chatted me on Facebook and was like what is wrong with you I have been watching you lately in the hallway and you always look sad what's wrong you can tell me. And he always call and text and chat and I can call him when I'm bored or anything. So what does this mean? Is he just being a good friend or is there still something there? Please help! But one thing that really is confusing is that he has a girlfriend so that really make me wonder HELP:confused:

He has a GF. This means he's not available, even if he's pretending to be.

How would you feel if you were his GF an he was behaving like this towards another girl?

Do the decent thing and leave him alone.

It sounds like he is just trying to be a good friend.

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Originally Posted by Gemini54

He has a GF. This means he's not available, even if he's pretending to be.

How would you feel if you were his GF an he was behaving like this towards another girl?

Do the decent thing and leave him alone.

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You are right but it's hard. Because we have been really good friends for awhile before we started dating and now it's just that we don't know how to draw the line between just friends and more. Any advice for that?:)

He has a girlfriend, he better KNOW how to draw that line. And if neither of you know how to be appropriate friends with each other then you should stop all contact as not to interfere with high priorities in eachother's lives.

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Originally Posted by edwluvya26

you are right but it's hard. because we have been really good friends for awhile before we started dating and now it's just that we dont know how to draw the line between just friends and more. any advice for that?:)

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It is hard, but you just have to pull back from the friendship out of respect for his GF.

Again, I'm sure that is what you'd want if you were the GF. Try and think about it from her point of view, and you'll find it easier to do.

You know the old saying - "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". It's corny, but it's true.

I think its on you to back away, and let your friend enjoy his girlfriend, just as a point of respect, and keeping the lines of good behavior intact.

Its quite telling that you confuse his friendship with wanting more, given from what you wrote it, sounds like he is just being a good friend.

Maybe your not ready for that friendship, at this time, and should back away for your own sake.