There is this guy at work. He is very nice to me, always helping me. He would notice that I had my toe nails done and compliment me, My finger nails are done too, he grabbed my hands and said he liked it. Today when I was passing by him, he winked at me and smiled. What does wink mean? Does it mean he likes me? I kindda like him. Thanks

He has something in his eye. Kidding.

Why don't you ask him if he likes you?

It could just be a friendly wink, in lieu of "hello", but you won't know until you ask.

So ask.

Good luck. :)

Thanks, How do I ask? I can't just go and ask "do you like me?"

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Why not ask him out for coffee, or to dinner? Make it casual. If he likes you he'll likely say yes, if he says he can't then you know he just likes you as a friend.

Good luck.

He likes you. Believe me, he'll go for coffee.

He is flirting with you.

Alt, No, I'm not THE guy, just A guy. I know how we act when we are interested.

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I'd like think if he likes me, he should invite me to lunch

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And I really wish he would be the same like you. :)

Maybe I could wink him back?

I have this one guy who comes into the office and always winks at me when he gets there and then before he leaves. We do talk but not enough to know whether that is a sign of interest. I think it is!

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I have this one guy who comes into the office and always winks at me when he gets there and then before he leaves. We do talk but not enough to know whether that is a sign of interest. I think it is!

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Are you interested? Are you shy?

I am interested but since we do business with him I am not sure if he wants to cross the line. I have done it in another job and the other guy said that he does not want to mix business with pleasure. I am not shy, I have been told I am a flirt so I am sure he can see that. I am very personal but just will not come out and say "I like you"

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I am interested but since we do business with him I am not sure if he wants to cross the line. I have done it in another job and the other guy said that he does not want to mix business with pleasure. I am not shy, I have been told I am a flirt so I am sure he can see that. I am very personal but just will not come out and say "I like you"

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I always liked a flirty girl. You may be right about not getting involved with a client though.

Oh well, it's still fun to flirt isn't it?

Well, then I am sure you would like me. It is subtle flirting but I am sure it is noticeable. We are doing his website for him and he is not hear all the time. He is also good friends with the owner of the company. I am going to try anyway and see what happens. It can't hurt, all he can do is say no. I can handle that, I will still act the same no matter what. Its not good to give up a possible opportunity.

OP,

No dating in the office. A big NO!

There are office relationships here and they are working out just fine. I am going to take a stab at it. Wish me luck :)