OK I know I'm like the biggest I LOVE THE SINGLE LIFE people but hey a girl can date can't she

OK so this guy I work with is really sweet I mean he is adorable and he drives me home when we do late night closes and we have hundreds of things in common and we haven't had a full blown argument

Now here's the question I want something more but it doesn't seem like he does but he keeps saying if the age gap wasn't so big he would probably date me and I said if he was younger I'd agree but could I date him when I'm a little older?

Just a query and has this ever happened to some one else?

BTW it is not the same guy I talked about in this post
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ot-335222.html

GO THE SINGLE LIFE WHEN YOU CAN JUST BE YOU

How old are you? How old is he?

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

How old are you? How old is he?

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I just turned 15 and he is 18

I can see why he's hesitant.

At 18 he's legally an adult, you're still a child, he could get into a lot of trouble if he dates you and it turns physical.

Wait a few years or find someone your own age to date.

He sounds like he's got a good head on his shoulders and doesn't want to risk anything.

Good luck. :)

Just wondering was I insane to even think it like a silly school girl?:confused:

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Originally Posted by Sphira

just wondering was i insane to even think it like a silly school girl?:confused:

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No, not insane, just human.

It sucks when you're younger and there are restrictions on the people you can date, mainly because of age.

He's being smart about this though. I can't blame him. It doesn't mean that he's not attracted to you, I'm sure he is, but at this point he would be a fool to date someone your age.

Now, in 3 years, when you're both adults, then go for it. :)

Um I live in aussie and the leagal ages here are sex at 16 um drinking at 18 and diving on ones own on 'P's is 17 but your right thanks a bunch