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  • May 31, 2009, 12:52 PM
    dalmation777
    Are we related?
    Hi, I just found out that a girl I like has a granny (her mums mum) who is cousins with my granny (my dads mum). Basically would just like to know are we related?
    Thanks
  • May 31, 2009, 01:00 PM
    chuff

    I think your children will turn out fine.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:03 PM
    Wondergirl

    You are shirt-tail (distant) cousins.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:07 PM
    dalmation777

    Thanks for replying, but what do you mean a shirts tail? How far distant cousins? Should I be worried, is it OK to still see her as I really like her.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:09 PM
    SailorMark

    The relation is distant. You share 1 out of 32 great-great grandparents. That is really negligible and nothing to be concerned about.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:20 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dalmation777 View Post
    thanks for replying, but what do u mean a shirts tail? how far distant cousins? should i be worried, is it ok to still see her as i really like her.

    I said in parentheses "distant." Very distant. No worries.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:28 PM
    chuff

    Worry free boinking.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:36 PM
    dalmation7777
    Phew, so we are not third cousins? (sorry guys, still same guy despite extra 7 on my username)
    Thanks for taking time to reply.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:42 PM
    Wondergirl

    Are the two grannies first cousins? You didn't say.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:45 PM
    dalmation7777

    Yeah, my dads mum and her mums mum are 1st cousins... does that change things?
  • May 31, 2009, 01:46 PM
    Wondergirl

    Then you and the girl are 3rd cousins, but so what?
  • May 31, 2009, 01:51 PM
    SailorMark
    Not at all. Boink away.
  • May 31, 2009, 01:52 PM
    dalmation7777

    Aww I really didn't want this to be true, isn't this wrong? People will frown upon it. I thought that we were third cousins to each others grannies but not related in anyway ourself
  • May 31, 2009, 02:04 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dalmation7777 View Post
    aww i really didnt want this to be true, isnt this wrong? people will frown upon it. i thought that we were third cousins to each others grannies but not related in anyway ourself

    If your grannies were first cousins, their children are second cousins to each other, and the children's children are third cousins to each other.

    Yes, you two are related, distantly. No, there is nothing wrong with 3rd cousins dating. In the event you marry and have children, the gene pool has been greatly stirred up by additional people along the way. No one will frown on it.
  • May 31, 2009, 04:41 PM
    Ren6
    It's fine. Don't worry.

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