There's this boy. Well we are both drummers. Hes not like the hot jock type. Hes got shaggy hair, big glasses, acne, braces, Not the typical guy I would like. Well my friend she has a boyfriend. Hes a cheerleader. She always talked about how much she liked him. Now, the drummer like my friend how's like a really pretty preppy girl. They spent some time together towards the end of the year. And now shw saying that she likes him a little. What about the cheerleader? You liked him for so long how could you do that to him? I was mad because a couple days before the drummer found out I liked him, and then my friend goes and gets all close to him and she has a boyfriend. I'm just comfused? I don't get it. I was wondering if someone could break it down a little more for me. Please help.

Your friend doesn't know what she wants.
The drummer friend is interested in her right now. I assume he knows she has this boyfriend?

All you can do is just be good friends with all them and see how it plays out. If you try and interfere your girlfriend could resent you. The drummer boy could think little of you and not even want with you if you were to break up whatever they have going.

There seems to be so much confusion on who likes who. The point is, you can't get angry at someone for not knowing what they want or having a change of heart. If she was your friend, you got to respect her decisions.

You can't control another person, all you do is, give it time and see what happens.