OK I'm a 15 year old girl
And I absolutely hate myself

I know everyone goes through these stages
But one week I'm happy and confident
And the next week I'm depressed and hate myself

And I hate myself even more for being so selfish and only thinking of myself
I get so confussed sometimes and just feel like going to sleep forever

I know its stupid but I'm so ugly with glasses and stupid. I feel useless and like no body really wants me I always make stupid mistakes and embaress myself and I really hate guys
They make me feel so about myself and any time I think I have a chance of going out with a guy something happens (usually a prettier girl comes along) and then I start to hate myself again.

I don't know what to do I get so confussed
I've been like this a couple of months
But like I said I'm happy for a few weeks
And then depressed the next week

I don't really know what to think anymore

I don't know if this will help but I used to be angry a lot, always mad just not happy but then I started to focus on the positive points in life. It really helps, there are things you can do to make yourself better too. Try getting active in maybe school activities, just going out and sitting in the sun, or maybe listen to some positive music; christian, reggae etc.

Stop thinking you're ugly. Right there is a beginning for setting yourself up for failure. If YOU have confidence in YOURSELF, others will see that. So just work really hard on focusing on the positive in you and it'll make a world of difference.

Hi, Tazmen!

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If your interested in knowing what it is and participating in doing it, please let me know on this thread.

Thanks!

Heyy, right I no I am younger than you. I am 14, but you ave gota listen to me, if you embrasse yourself , laff at yourself, people will then see that your okai with being hu you are, an respect you for it, when ever you feel dwn or feel ugly just go look at ugly people on the internet, it helps me loads, and as for feeling depressed you can't really help it, everyone feels it, all you gota do is have a massive cry, an snuggle up with your fav ice cream and watch your fav film. Believe me I have been suicidle TOO many times but like you said you get through it, you have just got to keep posotive and have you head held high. Make you look like you have all the cofidence in the world, even if you are hating yourself on the inside,if you look like you have confidence people will believe it an you will then start beliving it as well. I hope this helps you :) u will be fyn an I am sure your nt ugly, mayb tlk soon x

Don't think badly of yourself. Everybody is unique and good and bad in different ways. You need to be confident. A person who has only outer beauty and only inner beauty will only be beautiful for a short while. You need to be confident and don't EVER look down upon yourself. U are not ugly.