Partner isn't interested anymore.
Hi,
I've been with my partner for almost 3 years. For the entire time that I have known my boyfriend he has been extremely sexual and interested in sex, but for the last 1 1/2 years he's been less and less interested. It is gotten to the point now, that he masturbates daily (libido still ok) but NEVER initiates sex or sexual acts with me. Its been going on for at least a year like this... I can dress up, send dirty messages to him or strip down completely naked in front of him but still nothing... he just plays it down.
I have needs - and its not about orgasming - I just want to get some of that in return. I can't remember the last time he told me I was sexy or he acted like he couldn't get enough of me.
We still get along great and enjoy each others company, but I'm starting to feel more like a friend than a girlfriend...
Should I break it off? I've talked to him about it so many times but he just puts it down to either working too much or feel self conscious because of his weight. Its starting to feel just like one excuse after another... :confused:
PS. I would've thought this complaint would come from more men than women!