Children and imagination?
My niece is 8 and she has been doing a lot of weird things that my sister does not know how to handle... so I thought maybe you guys can help us out a little.
First of all my sister is not with the father... my niece stays with her mom on the weekday and then with her dad on the weekend. Well on one of the past weekends my niece told her dad that someone had touched her, the dad told my sister and they kind of got into an argument about other things to... well my sister went in the car and was really angry with my niece and screamed asking her what had happened... My niece told her that my sisters boyfriend brother ( who is 14 ) had touched her near her leg... she didn't say much about it just that that had happened. The thing is my niece said a couple of years ago that her uncle on her dads side use to touch her in the closet. My sister didn't want to make it a big deal so she just told the dad about what happened and told him to watch her carfully. Also last chrismas my sister boyfriend found a letter that my niece had written say things like " I love my mommy very much....My mommy kisses me and has sex with me and we have a lot of fun and say oh la la""" and so on and so on... it had some grafic things on it. Well the minute my sister brought it to my niece to talk about it my niece saw the paper and just started crying... we don't know what to think about it... is this normal, is this just a stage, did something really happen to her?? Please help us