It's a new country song about 2 brothers, and one tells the other you first because they can't both go at the same time, and they're both wounded, and one goes and the other dies, and it talks about heroes

Dean Brody- Brothers

Don't think that's the song I was looking for.

Some of the lyrics are like... 2 wounded soldiers and the other looks at the other and says you first, I'll see you on the other side... then it goes, never thought it'd be you first, you find out what heroes are made of when you say you first...

Not exact lyrics but something like that