Friend is a creep or he's just depressed?
My closest friend who usually is very supportive knows I am looking for a job in a particular state. He's very bitter about his high taxes there. I am anxious about finding a job, which my friend knows. He has told me a couple of times that the only way I will get a job there is by knowing someone. He's said this a couple of times, and I tried to be more positive about it, but he got very y about repeating what he said. I don't know why he would say that knowing I am so worried about finding work. It's mean to say, but I think he is happier knowing I am floundering rather than succeeding because he is so unhappy with his life. Also, after I got married, too, he became very nasty, bringing up past failures in my life that I was very sensitive to. He was quite repetitive with the jabs about my past. Overall, he is a very good friend, but sometimes I really hate him for the things he has said. Am I just too sensitive?