Okay well I know this girl, lilly, and she just moved back here. And her and this other girl lynzie used to go out but now they're just like best friends and they do everything together. Sometimes I ask lilly what she's doing after school and she says 'yea I'm going to lynzie's place and sleepover' and sometimes I get kind of jealous. Me, lilly, and lynzie are all bi. I talk to lynzie but barely and lilly I talk to all the time in lunch. Lilly says she kind of wants to get back with lynzie. I've kissed lilly before and I thought things would be different with us and we'd be closer, but we were the same. I want to be as close to her and she is with lynzie. They're both like these 'hardcore' people and going around doing the craziest things, saying the craziest things and they loves the same bands and people like craig mabbit, scary kids scaring kids, blessthefall, and sceamo music, but sometimes when I'm with lilly I don't know what to say and its just an awkward silence with us and with lynzie they can never seem to stop talking and laughing. Can someone tell me what to say? Am I boring? How can I get as close to lilly as lynzie is to lilly.

Just take interest in the things that she takes interest in, and she'll realize that you are making an effort to get to know her better.

I want ot ask are you hardcore do you do these crazy things do you want anything out of this lilly (sex) because I think I heard some alarm bells cause if you answered no to these questions and yes to the last I would say DUDE FIND A GIRL WHO SHARES YOUR INTERESTS THAT MAKE YOU INTERESTING TO HER. By the way if she's bi and you've kissed her before what's stopping you asking her out.

Good conversation starters teaches ( how I loath them)
Other people (I don't like people who use this its gossip)
Recent test
The weekend
Last nights crappy dinner
And furry creatures! (my BF used the line 'you think
Fluffy bunnies are hard to draw?'the first time he talked to me)

I'm into rock but not as heavy and screamo as her and we do some crazy things together but it seems as though she'd prefer lynzie over me anytime because she has a better time with her than me. I've never really put deep thought into sex with lilly because I just like her and I want to be with her and hold her and have her for me so I want to go out with her. I'd find someone else but lilly is just SUPER hard to ignore and when I hug her I never want to let go, I just want to hold her tighter. She's a bit of a slut, we're both 14 and she's not even a virgin and I am. When we kissed it was just because she felt like I was ignoring her and I said "how can i make it better" and she said to kiss her and I did. Nothing different after that

14 not a virgin I'm sorry but in my books that's a little gross I would in you case find some commen ground and be yourself don't go be something your not and 14? Hardcore is not in your collection buddy far from it be friend close friends even and enjoy your life as it is be like me when
There's no one to impress don't fit in with the rest be loud be proud and be your best!:cool:

You when I think it about, it is pretty gross. And she kind of does things that are a little too out there for me. I find someone else:]. Thanks