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  • May 27, 2009, 01:06 PM
    J3abi_Gurl
    Cant get pregnant
    I don't think I can get pregnant because me and my boyfriend haven't used a condom 4 da past year and I still don't pregnant I get my periods every month on time or just 2 or 3 days late and I'm 10 n its abit scary thinking I can't get pregnant can you tell me why
  • May 27, 2009, 01:07 PM
    stevetcg

    No one here will be able to tell you why. If you think it's a problem, talk to your doctor.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:09 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma

    You're ten years old? If so, you do not need to be worrying about getting pregnant, shouldn't be having sex, and shouldn't even have a boyfriend. Please use real words and sentence structure so that we know what you are saying and asking. Netspeak will just confuse people.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:09 PM
    J_9
    I don't understand chat speak. Can you please type in proper words and sentences?

    If you are wondering if you are pregnant please pee on your keyboard and I'll have the answer for you momentarily.

    We cannot diagnose you over the internet. There are hundreds of different reasons women's periods are late.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:10 PM
    J3abi_Gurl

    Would you be able to tell me where I can find a *qualified* expert from then?
  • May 27, 2009, 01:10 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma View Post
    You're ten years old??

    She's 10 days late I think. I know, chat speak is hard to understand.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:11 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl View Post
    would you be able to tell me where i can find a *qualified* expert from then?

    I am a qualified expert in obstetrics, however, I cannot diagnose you over the internet. You will have to take a pregnancy test or visit a doctor in person.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:11 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    She's 10 days late I think. I know, chat speak is hard to understand.

    Oh goodness, that scared me. Yes, it is.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:13 PM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl View Post
    would you be able to tell me where i can find a *qualified* expert from then?

    A doctor's office? Planned Parenthood? The hospital?

    You need a doctor, not the internet.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:13 PM
    J3abi_Gurl
    Sorry I'm 10 years old and that's disgusting what you just said about peeing on the keyboard and my periods don't come late they come on time I just don't get pregnant
  • May 27, 2009, 01:14 PM
    stevetcg

    Troll troll troll troll

    Troll alert.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:14 PM
    J_9
    You are 10 years old and having sex and wondering if you can have a baby? I should say I hope you can't. If you do, either you or the baby will have serious complications and either one of you could possibly die during labor and delivery.

    Please talk to your parents about the seriousness of babies having babies.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:16 PM
    J3abi_Gurl
    Sorry my nine is not working it keeps coming up as zero I'm nineteen years old not 10 n I'm not 10 days late
  • May 27, 2009, 01:16 PM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    you are 10 years old and having sex and wondering if you can have a baby? I should say I hope you can't. If you do, either you or the baby will have serious complications and either one of you could possibly die during labor and delivery.

    Please talk to your parents about the seriousness of babies having babies.

    Better yet - speak to someone qualified like a school counselor because if this thought is even in the head of a 10 year old... and that 10 year old is having sex... then the parents are negligent and should not be having children themselves.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:18 PM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl View Post
    sorry my nine is not working it keeps coming up as zero im nineteen years old not 10 n im not 10 days late

    Ok - well... that's better. :)

    Still - you need to speak to a real doctor about the issue if you are not getting pregnant. There might be medical issues, none of which can be diagnosed over the internet.

    It may also be your boyfriend.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:19 PM
    Justwantfair

    She is nineteen, answered on another thread.

    At 19, you are still too young to be concerned about not being pregnant for not being careful. You can speak with a doctor about your concerns, but I would actually be more inclined to think that you are damn lucky, not infertile.

    There is also the question of your boyfriend's fertility, it takes two people to conceive a child.
  • May 27, 2009, 01:19 PM
    J3abi_Gurl

    OK thank you
  • May 27, 2009, 01:20 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J3abi_Gurl View Post
    sorry im 10 years old and thats disgusting what you just said about peeing on the keyboard and my periods dont come late they come on time i just dont get pregnant

    It was a JOKE!

    Being late for a period is caused by many reasons.

    Stress
    Weight gain or loss
    Illness... etc.

    How long have you been actually trying to get pregnant? Have you discussed this with your gynecologist?
  • May 27, 2009, 01:21 PM
    J3abi_Gurl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    She is nineteen, answered on another thread.

    At 19, you are still too young to be concerned about not being pregnant for not being careful. You can speak with a doctor about your concerns, but I would actually be more inclined to think that you are damn lucky, not infertile.

    There is also the question of your boyfriend's fertility, it takes two people to conceive a child.

    I don't like talking in person to anyone about this that's the only reason why I came here
  • May 27, 2009, 01:23 PM
    Justwantfair
    Well if you were/get pregnant you will have to speak to a doctor then...

    So maybe it is time to address the fear.

    Otherwise, wait until you grow up a bit, nineteen is still young for parenting.

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