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  • May 26, 2009, 10:43 AM
    fito
    I don't understand him.
    We were really nice together... But I don't know what is happening to him,and one day he said to me that we have to break up... I wanted to know why and he just said that he can't continue anymore... I don't know why.. I haven't done anything wrong... We were really good,we understood each other... I have tried so hard to know what is happening,why he decided to Break up... He says just: I cant.. and doesn't say any other word.. I'm very hurted... It's not that he doesn't love me,I know he Loves me. :(
  • May 26, 2009, 10:48 AM
    Unknown008

    Maybe he has some personnal problems for the time being. Just tell him that you'll remain friends and that you'll always be ready to help him in whatever way you can (if you do think like such). Do give him some time to cope with his problems, and I'm pretty sure that he'll come back later if he really loves you. :)
  • May 26, 2009, 11:12 AM
    teastalk

    I agree with the above poster. If it was meant to be, let him go and he'll come back. Evidence of such is basically everyone on this board who has had a boyfriend or girlfriend who broke up with them and now all of us who have been broken up with are hoping that our exes will come back to us. However, if he doesn't, then, it wasn't meant to be and you will find someone who will treat you better, be concerned about your aches or pains, and give you the affection you deserve.
  • May 26, 2009, 02:53 PM
    liz28

    If he loved you he would've gave you closure by giving you reasons.

    You are the one that was with him so what have changed? Did he just lose a job, a friend or relative died, what?

    Sometimes people just grew apart so I must ask what are the two of you ages? When it comes down to relationship they are no guarantees. A relationship only works if the two people involved wants it to work.

    And he no longer did, he wanted out. There is more to a relationship then love. It takes open communication, trust, respect, compromise, understanding, and a lot of TLC. When either of these things are lacking the relationship won't last.
  • May 26, 2009, 08:29 PM
    chuff

    You didn't really provide a background so maybe that would help explain it better.
  • May 27, 2009, 05:33 AM
    Romefalls19

    More information needs to be provided
  • May 27, 2009, 05:44 AM
    talaniman

    How old are you, and how long have you been together?
  • May 27, 2009, 05:54 AM
    s32sharma

    He may be gay or he may have another girl in mind. Maybe you are not giving him the space he needs, or it may not be eithers fault . He may not be ready for committed relationships so let it go, give him some time maybe he will come back if not try and forget him and move on

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