My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little more than 2 years. He's jewish and I come from a catholic family.. what does this have to do with thanksgiving? Well, he's been to my family parties for christmas for the past two years, and I've been to his house for hanukkah for the past two years. The thing is, he's met more people of my extended family at holidays, than I have of his. I've only ever met like 2 uncles and an aunt. I am always invited, but don't accept because it's a holiday id like to spend with my family- i.e. mother's day, father's day, last two thanksgivings. In the last year-year and a half, he's lost two grand parents. Of course I was invited to the funerals but that to me is weird- I can make it for the saddest time but not for the happy times? This year I'm invited to thanksgiving. And I really think this year is the best year to go because his last grandparent is still alive and they don't know how much longer they'll have her. The problem is, I want to be with my family on thanksgiving, but I want to go to his and god forbid if I choose his family over mine at a holiday. I don't want to let down my parents by "choosing one family over another", plus it may not be an easy trip depending on where my family is going for thanksgiving. Should I go to his thanksgiving to finally meet everyone after 2 years, or figure out how to make everyone happy even if I have tospend 10 hours on the road. (okay, maybe not 10 hours, but more time than I'd like).