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  • May 24, 2009, 09:57 AM
    infantry11
    My wife's best friend
    How can I tell if my wife's friend likes me?
    Me and her are always sitting close, she puts her hand on my chest. Then yesterday she asked me to go to an adult store with her. After she stayed with me for a couple of hours.
    I am picking up mixed signals. What should I do?
  • May 24, 2009, 10:06 AM
    artlady

    You should not return the signal and let her know by your reaction,body language,etc. that you are not interested.Stop sitting close and don't allow her to invade your personal space.

    She needs to learn about boundaries and if you are feeling flattered,you should ask yourself why.

    This is a no win situation,do the right thing and put her in her place.Don't encourage her and be sure you make your position known.

    She may just be a touchy feeley kind of person but it should be hands off other peoples husbands.
  • May 24, 2009, 06:08 PM
    Gemini54
    Distance yourself from this person now. It is highly inappropriate that she should be touching you or sitting close to you, let alone asking you to visit a sex shop with her.

    These are the things that you should be doing with your wife, not her. Let your wife know about your concerns, as she's not a good friend if she's behaving in this way!
  • May 24, 2009, 09:21 PM
    I wish

    I find it very inappropriate that you even need to ask this question. You should not even be trying to interpret her actions.

    You should be thinking... if my wife knew about her acitons, how would she feel?

    Stop messing around with another woman, put some distance from her and focus on your wife.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:51 PM
    martina59

    Run the other way, and tell your wife. If the shoe were on the other foot... wouldn't you want to know as well??

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