Okay this might take sometime to explain but here it goes anyway.

I have had the same boyfriend for a year and 4 months we have broken up before but he always text me or tries getting me back or I always text him I have been kind of a push over with him cause he is the most amazing person ever but he fcks up a lot at times. I usually get over things but lately we fight every day and stuff and he has this girl who likes him that he has gone out with before that is always trying to text him and talk to him we have had problems with her before so I asked him not to text her he supposedly understood sense he doesn't like me talking to this one guy either but two of my friends told me that he talked with her for hours the other day and he admitted to it. That bothered me so much cause it has been like 2 weeks that he goes ohh I can't talk tonight and that has never happened and so when I found that out and thought about all the fighting he puts me through I broke up with him knowing it's the right thing to do and even though I don't want to go back with him I can't help but miss him I'm not eating well and I always have a funny feeling I need help w.e you guys want to share with me to make me feel better.

Btw: he has sent me only one text saying I'm sorry and I know I always say the samething but I really love you I did not text back.

Please don't tell me to just move on trust me I wish I could. & thank you.

Yeah sounds like his interest is else where now and he is fighting hoping it will cause you to break up with him.

If you really want to get over him quicker, then stop contacting him. If he contacts you, do not respond. Block him out of your life until you have fully recovered from the breakup.

Here are the no contact rules: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...qs-332732.html

I know that it can be tempting to break the rules, but you have to fight the urges. Just keep in mind that every time you contact him, you will reset all the progress that you've made.

Furthermore, it's normal to miss your boyfriend during the early stages of the breakup. With time, you will realize that you broke up for a reason and you're better off going your separate ways.

You just need to give yourself time and avoid contact so that you can heal properly and realize all these things.

I'm sorry to hear that you're having a difficult time. Eventually, the pain of it will subside. Breakups are really difficult for all of us. I know it may be difficult to see right now, but you're doing the right thing! It's natural to miss someone that has been in our lives, but when a relationship is the right one things will just work. It's hard to explain, but love shouldn't have to hurt. Avoid contacting your ex until you are really ready to be friends. Some people are better as friends, rather than a love interest. I hope this helps.