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  • May 22, 2009, 06:43 PM
    24babygirl
    Guy Decoder
    I'm been seeing a guy on and off for a couple months. When we were texting.. I ask him what are we to each other? In other words, Am I your girl or what? His response..
    " We are extremely special to each other?":confused: What does that mean?
    Help!
  • May 22, 2009, 06:44 PM
    mikeymike64

    Means if you want a serious guy run away good luck
  • May 22, 2009, 06:51 PM
    Scleros
    I had a good chuckle reading your post. Your guy either A) sincerely thinks you're special, or B) is skilled in the art of B.S. that women will gobble up which allows him to avoid directly answering the question and committing himself.

    I'm leaning toward B.
  • May 22, 2009, 08:40 PM
    I wish

    Sounds like you want a serious relationship, but he's not taking you seriously.
  • May 23, 2009, 02:32 AM
    24babygirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Scleros View Post
    I had a good chuckle reading your post. Your guy either A) sincerely thinks you're special, or B) is skilled in the art of B.S. that women will gobble up which allows him to avoid directly answering the question and committing himself.

    I'm leaning toward B.

    Thanks... I thought something was up.. I'm done.. appreciate the help.
  • May 23, 2009, 07:33 AM
    talaniman

    What do you expect after only dating off, and on, for a few months??
  • May 23, 2009, 08:44 AM
    24babygirl
    That was my call. I had to travel.. but I'm done with him.. :):)
  • May 23, 2009, 09:07 AM
    BMI

    Did you ask him outright if you were his girl or did you ask him what are we together? I think it makes a huge difference in his answer. If you asked am I your girl and he answered with the response you wrote than he's stalling. If you asked him how you two feel than I can understand what he is trying to say, albeit not very clearly.

    Also, did he have a question mark in his response, I most certainly hope not.
  • May 23, 2009, 10:05 AM
    24babygirl
    No ask him "What r we to each other".. he didn't put a question mark on his response.. but I'm DONE! He is not worth it. Moving On! :):)

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