I just adopted a new 10 month old puppy. He was rescued and has fears of being abandoned so he can't handle being alone. Last night we went out for a few hours and he went to the bathroom in his crate, even though he is house trained. He was crying so loudly when we opened the door. He also cries is we leave him alone in his crate and close our bedroom door. How can we help him get use to being alone, without upsetting him so much?