I have a teenage son who is out of control, disrespectful towards me, my husband, school teachers basically to anyone who has authority over him. He wants to go live with his dad who is a very bad person. His father is a drug user, in and out of jail and was never really in my sons life. My son continuously gets kicked out of school, never listens to me, always talks back to me and argues with me constantly. He tells me he doesn't want to live with me he wants to go live with his dad although this breaks my heart I'm not sure what I should do?? :(

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School teachers basically to anyone who has authority over him.

Letting him go to his dads is not the answer.
He wants to go to his dad because he knows he can get away with things.

What does his dad have to say about the whole thing?
Do you have a court ordered custody/visitation order?