My boyfriend isn't interested in sex. Be it, age, depression, or me, he isn't really interested in it. He still watches porn but won't have sex with me. I am scared to initiate because when I do I'm rejected, how many rejections should I take? If we had a sex life I'd probably marry the guy because really I do care about him. When do you say, "no sex, no me". What about those married men with children that don't get sex? They just don't leave their wives... usually.

Have you considered the reason for no sex? Have you talked to him about it? How long has it been since you guys have had sex? How much were you guys having sex at the beginning of the relationship? How long have you guys been together? How old are the two of you?

Sorry, I need more information before providing a good answer.

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Originally Posted by kitty unrest

My boyfriend isn't interested in sex. Be it, age, depression, or me, he isn't really interested in it. He still watches porn but won't have sex with me. I am scared to initiate becasue when i do i'm rejected, how many rejections should i take? If we had a sex life I'd probably marry the guy because really I do care about him. When do you say, "no sex, no me". What about those married men with children that don't get sex? They just don't leave their wives........usually.

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Girl men of more than 30yrs of age though they can watch porns they are normaly low sexually active more especially when they drink alcohol too much. The only enjoy sex when they are drunk or with other women if they are sober. Your response when having sex counts a lot.

Do not complain at that moment or try to be hush, or question him negatively so you can keep his mood positively.

I feel for you. I get rejected about 17 times a week. Perhaps I try too much, if I want it less I would be rejected less. Lol

But yes, talk to him about it. If he gets upset ask him why is sex such a big deal for him? It obviously is if he is not willing to discuss it with you.

This was posted 7 months ago and the OP hasn't returned. Perhaps we should wait until she does to give further advice.

I got rid of him! Yeah!! On to bigger and better things, and better men of course. Thanks for your input!

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Originally Posted by kitty unrest

I got rid of him!! yeah!!! On to bigger and better things, and better men of course. Thanks for your input!!

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Well, good on you. Hope it all works out for the best - bigger things and better men.