Hi,
I was surfing the net to find out answer to a question my girlfriend asked me last night. We accepted relation between us few days a ago. In fact I did proposed her long time ago but she refused at that time but later 3 days back she told she had feeling for me.
But I find there was something holding her back. Something that made her refuse that time.
Last night she told me that she is tensed about her parents. She is worried about there reaction when they find out about all this. She asked me "What if our fate separate us. Both of us won't go against our parents" She added that she is not that strong to face that anytime. Though I convinced her that I won't let this happen but still I am worried. Me myself not that strong to face that.

Additional :-
We 2 are just 18 right now and there are around 8-10 years for this thing but still imagining this and she crying is just...

Please guide me with that. I will become successful guy and do nything so that parents don't
Refuse but I am still worried.

I am not good by physique that parents would won't desire for their daughter. This is holding me back though I am working on my physique

I'm sorry but I can't really understand what you are asking advice about? How to become a successful guy so that her parents will like you?

How to make her happy?

How to make her parents happy?

Thanks,
Roxy

Just make her happy. Nyways, me too confused about same.
I guess my question is pointless. Lolzzzzz...

All you can do is be yourself, don't compromise who you are to impress someone else. If they are good parents, they will see that their daughter is happy and that you bring about that happiness and will accept you.

Does this have more to do with religion?

A parent will not find a guy successful and welcoming just because of physique.

Why does she believe that your parents will not accept your relationship?

What country are you from?

India, bcs in india for girls arrange marriage is preferred

Does she already have a marriage arranged?

No please don't say that. Just she is worried that they may feel sad if they found out of our relation.

Since you both have a strong respect for the parents, that's where you start, not by hiding, and waiting for them to find out, but by being straight, and honest, with them. I doubt they look on deceit as a good quality.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Since you both have a strong respect for the parents, thats where you start, not by hiding, and waiting for them to find out, but by being straight, and honest, with them. I doubt they look on deceit as a good quality.

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Thank you for your words. But we are just 18, they won't approve in any case if we told them now.