So the other day I decided I was going to start gauging my ears. I have double piercings but if I started in either of those they wouldn't be centered so I pierced in between them. My ears still kind of hurt, I did this yesterday, and whenever I take it out it bleeds. Right now I have 14 gauge barbells in there cause I was planning on doing my industrial and didn't think I'd be leaving these in too long but I don't know.. do most people just pierce their ears and then gauge them right after? If not how long do you usually wait?