We went to my hubbys twin brothers for there 40th I left early my hubby stayed he got home at 2 am now when I went to sort the washing I noticed he had in his underwear I'm not sure but I feel he had a one night stand what do you reckon thanks

Well, we don't really know. The only person that does know, is your husband. Have you ask him? It's best to open up the lines of communication, and talk to him.

There could be a lot or reasons it was in his underwear...
Unfortunately we cannot answer this.
Ou need to talk to him about it.
If you don't trust him and can't communicate with him that is more of a problem than the one night stand would be.

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Originally Posted by aussieblonde37

we went to my hubbys twin brothers for there 40th i left early my hubby stayed he got home at 2 am now when i went to sort the washing i noticed he had in his underwear im not sure but i feel he had a one night stand what do you reckon thanks

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This doesn't make much sense to me, What did he have in his underwear?
As others have said, try asking your husband.

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Originally Posted by Rich11111

This doesn't make much sense to me, What did he have in his underwear??
As others have said, try asking your husband.

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Thank you for asking. I am confused as well... especially since others answered like they understood.

The way I filled in the blank, left me wondering if you thought he had a homosexual affair?

I think she meant that he had inside his underwear, it that is right it could have gotten there with out his pants being down, but you know more about how that part of him operates than I do. Now if it was lipstick that you found in his underwear, that is a different thing altogether.

Ok, we are using a word that AMHD removes. There are a couple of different options, are we talking semen?

AMHD removes words without leaving a gap or something indicating a word has been removed??
That's just plain confusing

Yes.

If you type out a sentence using any term they have screened it disappears from the post, when posted.

Can't be semen then as it wasn't deleted from your post.

Could the OP re-ask her question using words that wouldn't be blocked?

Unless it was the three letter synonym starting with C and ending with M.

My guess is that it was the slang term for semen. Just a guess. ;)

Just because there is semen in his underwear does not necessarily means that he had an affair.

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Just because there is semen in his underwear does not necessarily means that he had an affair.

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Yeah.. thats usually left with the other person.

Oh my. This seems a little "invasive" on your side... but whatever. Does he check your underwear?

Occasionally men may have some leakage after sex or masturbation. But then, either gender may have similar secretions in their underwear.

I'd be VERY careful about jumping to conclusions with this..

Two words

Wet. Dream

I just think there are too many unanswered questions that we need the OP to come back and clarify...

Are you positive that's what it was? I mean, sometimes the old "shake it" method after a quick trip to the restroom may have left urine drops in his undies.

Are you positive those are the shorts he was wearing that particular night?

Most importantly have you asked your hubby about it?

How long have you been married- because I'm wondering if you've thought he was cheating before.

And I have to think it'd take a pretty low-down guy to cheat on his wife around family. So what you're insinuating happened is pretty out there and says a lot about what you think of him. A lot of women think their spouses have cheated at some point, but there must be a reason you'd think he'd be so crass to cheat at a birthday party that includes family.

Please come back and tell us more about this situation...

I think if AMHD removed a word from someone post they usual write something like <word removed>. I think the OP left out a word.

Now if you found lipstick in his underwear then most likely something went down but make sure the lipstick doesn't belong to you. If your referring to this.

Only if it is personally changed by a moderator does it note that something has been changed or edited.

Yes, I've had that too... I've typed a word then had to go back and edit my post because it just magically disappeared...

I assumed it was c... u... m

That's how I answered the question anyway :confused: