I have been in a relationship for 5 months. At first everything went well at the beginning now he doesn't answer my calls nor my text. He says he has a lot on his mind and going on in his life. I tell him I want to be there for him when he going through all this. I just want to know if we are still in a relationship or is it over and he can't do even that. I have given him time weeks at a time and he comes back and tells me he sorry to have put me though this. I always forgive him and then he continues to put me through this emotional roller-coaster. He says I'm a very emotional person. I'm so confused. Not sure if it's over I feel like I need to put closure to our relationship so I can heal and move on. After ending with my ex-husband after 2 years. He's the first relationship I have been involved in. I sent him a letter a few days ago not sure if he has read it yet and not sure if he will call me.I'd rather someone tell me it's over then keeping me hanging and not know where I stand. I need advise? Why is it hard not to let go?

Do you think he is in another relationship? Is he married? It sounds like something is wrong with all of this. Usually when you meet someone new the first few months are days and nights when two people can't get enough of each other. If you are too needy and pushy you can make a man withdraw from you. Give him time to come out of his cave to talk to you. If he doesn't you need to try to move on.

Well you're letting him dictate everything. YOU can put an end to the relationship too.

You're right about the emotional roller-coaster and who knows when it will stabilize. Why put yourself through so much pain and suffering when you can be with someone else who will make you happy.

END IT yourself so that you can MOVE ON!

You're putting your own life on hold and letting this guy come and go as he pleases. Right now he doesn't care what you are going through. Dump him and just watch the shock on his face. Stop forgiving him for treating you like crap. You deserve to be treated well. Others will respect you as much as you respect yourself. Stand up and demand that respect.