Well, I have been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months. Now. He is very controlling but intertwines this with being nice and mean. We normally wear condoms and lately he's been saying we shouldn't wear them. He doesn't want me on birth control,and I saw a needle one time by the condoms. I want to know what are some real SNEAKY things a man will do to try to get a woman pregnant, but if she were to flip it on her like he does to me?

Well all I can say to that is it might be possible. Maybe he wants to trap you. But if your not ready then don't do it. Get on the pill. He doenst have to know. Its once a day and you can hide them. Better yet get an IUD. One visit and your good for awhile.

Sounds very shady. I suggest you confront him about this issue. Guessing his intentions isn't going to get us anywhere.

If you feel you should hide birth control from your significant other, I think that's a sign you shouldn't be with them.

He doesn't sound like a good partner to me. I sure wouldn't be taking a chance having his babies either.

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He is very controlling but intertwines this with being nice and mean

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Thats a big RED FLAG, are you paying attention.

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he's been saying we shouldn't wear them. (condoms)

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Thats a big RED FLAG,

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He doesn't want me on birth control,

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Thats a big RED FLAG,

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and I saw a needle one time by the condoms

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Thats a big RED FLAG,

You have answered your own question, so why take any more chances. Run!!!! He wants you pregnant, barefoot, and completely dependent on him. You have been warned.