The baby was born 3weeks ago now , and everything seemed great at first the way my boyfriend was acting about the whole situation actually made us closer..
He was at the birth of their child , and see the child everyday up at the mothers house..
That's the only issue I have. Is it wrong?
I understood for the first two weeks she didn't want the baby out of the house as widewives checked on her and the child everyday, and so it was much easier if he just went up to vist. But now that period has past and he's still not able to bring the baby to his house. He's spent a lot of money buying all the things you need for a child and he just seems to be a gloified babysitter right now. My boyfriend ask if he could have the child at the weekend for two reason he wants to be alone with his possible child and two so he can get the DNA test done, without the mother knowing ( he is only doing the DNA test behind her back as the mothers sisters ex asked for a DNA of his possile child and as he asked for the DNA test she refussed him ascess to his possible child and if the baby is his he wants to do the right thing and be there.)
I just think personily that it no fair. Her excuse for not letting him have the baby was because he 'didnt need to have her' as she wasn't going out and that 'the child wasn't used to him yet' but how will that happen if he only get to see the baby a few hours every day, and its becoming a srain on out realsonship as he cam only go up o see when it suits the mother and that usuakl when I would see him , but he obv gose then but I don't.
I don't want to ge involed until we are sure the baby is his, am I worng? Should I go up?
He acts like it doesn't bother him but it dose he doesn't like the mother of the child, and the area she intends on bring his child up, he hates having to go down there all the time biut dose it for the child! I also just found out the mother of the child went out partying 2DAYS after having the child, so who had the baby? The father could have! She has also planned a holioday for 2weeks without the chikd, were she has asked my boyfriend to look affter the child witch he is more than happy to do, but it seems like he only good for when she dosen want the child..