It seems like as a freshmen in high school girls only want to be with older guys they may like other freshmen but they never date them do girls go for older guys because the girl I like is dating an older guy she only talked to like once or twice its amazing
I would give up if I thought it would last but I heard her boyfriend talking about wanting to have sex with another girl

Girls mature faster than boys do, so that's why the freshman girls check out the junior and senior "men" who appear to be much more "mature" (they shave, drive, have cars, are more educated) than are the freshman boys.

I agree but why would she go out with a guy she never even talked to?

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Originally Posted by wantanftw

i agree but why would she go out with a guy she never even talked to?

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Excitement
Mystery
Possible danger
Heard about him from someone else

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Originally Posted by wantanftw

i agree but why would she go out with a guy she never even talked to?

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Not all girls like older guys at all times. It depends on the guy, whoever they find appealing to them. When you find someone attractive enough: standard and preference are suddenly forgotten. On this case, you wouldn't know if she's just looking for reasons not to date with you.

Another weird thing is that they never talk they just walk by each other in the halls

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Originally Posted by wantanftw

another weird thing is that they never talk they just walk by each other in the halls

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It's none of your business if they talk or not. They may be avoiding something or just tired of talking last night on the phone or they are not dating at all. Just ask the girl if you can date her. If she declines then fine. End of story.

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Originally Posted by superk

It's none of your business if they talk or not. They may be avoiding something or just tired of talking last night on the phone or they are not dating at all. Just ask the girl if you can date her. If she declines then fine. End of story.

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Disagree button is only used to correct factually wrong post not because you disagree with the opinion or the post.

I think this girl is going to get a reality check sooner or later. It's up to you if you want to wait around.. but you're going to get hurt if you do. If those rumors are true about her boyfriend, someone has got to get her out of that situation! Maybe tell her friend or something.